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Go You're listening to the Girls Get Off podcast, an R18 podcast in all things female pleasure. Think girl talk, but real girl talk, where we chat all things masty, self-loving, sex, orgasms and more. Nothing is off limits, which means you get all the secrets even our guests BFFs don't know. We're on a mission to make talking about getting off as fun as actually doing it. Ready to join the Mastination? Let's get into it. Welcome to the GGO podcast. Today we are talking things you can try in the bedroom this Valentine's day. I guess you could try it at any time in the bedroom, but specifically Valentine's day because we hope you're going to be having heaps of sex. Yep. Spicy Valentine's are always the best. Viv is more excited about this podcast than I am. I'm a little out of practice as we all know. I'm keen to also hear Viv's tips. Well, I think the best part about whenever you're having conversations with people around what they do in the bedroom or bedroom ideas, the most exciting part is learning new things because when you're having sex in the bedroom, it's not like you're looking at anyone else or it's not like you're watching anyone else having sex in the bedroom behind their closed doors, you know? So you never know what paths people go down. It's always interesting to hear. I'm sure there'll be lots of things today where people think. Oh, I've never thought about that before. I know when I talk to my friends, people will bring things up, which I've got a couple of them written down today that make me go, that'd be so nice. And it's something that's a norm for them. So I'm excited. Interesting. So you say you have no ideas, but really it could have been any sex from throughout your life or anything you've read. Yes. Yes, that. And um I read the confessions every week. So I do probably have a few more little ideas than most, but. And I also think we can touch on some solo play ideas too, because I've got a couple of different ideas you can do if you don't have a partner this Valentine's day, because what a great opportunity for some nice self care. Great. Love that. Love it. Okay. So hit us, hit us with your, the one thing I went to say hit us with yours, but actually. How fun are just some dice? Yeah. So the dice Joe is holding from the latest couples box and they've got, I think they've got an action on one of the dice and then the body part on the other. You know, I was just, I was just about to say, let's play. I'm going to hold some up to the screen randomly. The first ones we got were touch your nipples. Well, I you touched their nipples. their nipples. Yeah. Touch nipples. I've got rub nipples, so you've got like neck, ears, lips, thigh, and you've got things like tickle, kiss, lick, et cetera. And I think these can be good for before you go to dinner on Valentine's Day. You could do a little warmup. You could use them as soon as you get home. You could have like five rolls in the morning, see where it goes. There's so many different ways you can incorporate these. And like half the, like it takes out all the decisions, right? It's like suck ears. uh And it's just kind of funny too sometimes. is. There'd be a laughing situation if someone's sucking on your ear. Absolutely. So I just saw them as I was about to ask you and that's my favourite to get into it I think. I think one of the best things people can try with any situation or toy or doesn't even have to be with equipment is the use of timers. One of the things we, you and I have probably both learned from talking to so many sexologists and having this business and we talked about it in the recent podcast, in terms of taking your time and slowing down, I think the use of timers can be great because it also takes the guesswork out of, I be reciprocating? Am I taking too long? Have they been at have they been down there for too long? um And it actually just helps you relax as well. So I feel like timers can be used in a number of different situations. I remember a friend telling me how her and her partner would, if they were just watching TV, they'd do half an hour each and they would say he would rub her like inner thighs and all around her vulva but never actually touch her clit or never finger her or anything. And just, they'd just lie there for half an hour and just do that while they're watching TV, just as a little way to spice things up. And then she would reciprocate. So she said, by the time you then went to the bedroom or started having sex, both of you were so warmed up and it was just such an easy, nice way to excite each other rather than just spooning on the couch. That's incredible. But half an hour? That's- Well, you're watching TV. Oh, how do you concentrate on TV? That just sounds bloody cruel. Um, but I do like that. love, I love the idea. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Perfect. Perfect. Such a good idea. it's like, or just that, you know, know that it's not your turn yet or something, you know, like. And you don't have to worry about like, oh, should I start touching them? You know, you can just lie there and watch TV while they touch you, rub your inner thighs. Like, great. That just sounds amazing. And then if you want to level things up a couple of the ways, I think you could use timers, especially with a couple of things from that couples box. which we're probably going to end up touching on a lot today because it's just the best, is if you, in the couple's box there's a blindfold, so you could use any sleeping mask, you could even, I mean, you could put a t-shirt over your head if you wanted to, but you can pop a blindfold on, which makes all your other senses sort of heightened. You could even pair that up with some restraints if you wanted to, if you wanted to put your hands behind your back or above your head, and then again, set a timer. You could have them perform aural on you, you could do aural on them. You could also do like a toy, so they could have, five minutes or so and however long you need, I'm sure people listening are not going to want 30 minutes with Missy. Let them get into your toolbox, get into your toy bag, surprise you with what's coming next and just like have a little surprise session. That can always be a little bit of fun as well. Love that. And I think the reason why a couples' books goes so well with this topic is because it was designed for play. Like, you know, to not just like pleasure in the bedroom, but bringing that element of play in there at a very non-intimidating, you know, beginner level for everybody. I have an idea for those. you've got your partner who happens to be a male blindfolded on the bed, maybe you're going to do some like oral. If you can get your hands on like, they're called like Tinger eggs or even like a Tenge is the brand, they've got like amazing different fleshlights and stuff, but there's a Tenge egg, is like a, well, they come in like literally six packs of eggs, but you can get these, they're like a little jelly thing. And if you like put some lube in it, maybe warm it up in your hands, then you could surprise them by like putting that around the top of their penis. it vibrate? I think you can get vibrating ones, but the ones that I've seen are just like, they're just like jelly. Oh, just like the inside of a flashlight type of... Yeah, yeah, yeah. And they're really stretchy. So imagine if you were like licking or sucking on their balls, if that's what they're into. And then you had that like lubed up and going over the tip of their penis. That'd be like, what is happening? So good. And such a good tip for the girls or guys that don't necessarily like, you know, shoving it in the back of their throat. Yeah, totally. And they also had, when I was in Germany, they had these fleshlights, which looked incredible. And you can imagine a normal fleshlight, is like, for those that don't know what a fleshlight is, you remember those like slinkies when we were growing up and you grab onto them and they like pop out of your hands. It's kind of what fleshlights are like in a sense. they called? No, that slinkies are like the walk down the stairs thing. Okay. The jelly things. know. Look it up anyway. Yeah. You squeeze it and then it bubbles out. Like, yeah. So Fleshlight and the Tenga ones, you can get a whole different range, but these new Tenga ones, when you put it on the shaft and you twist it slightly, it grips onto the shaft as well. So instead of just having like this jelly pocket, you normally put a penis inside. It's a jelly pocket, but then if you push down and like twist slightly as you go up, then it will create like bit of a vacuum and it'll squeeze it a little bit, which is apparently, as I've heard, next level. That could be another level if you want to invest a little bit more into your fleshlights. they're super easy. The Tenga ones are quite easy to clean. You can open them up and wash them out and stuff, but hot tip. We love your knowledge Viv. Cute. Me and the Tenga man at the expo got along like a house on fire. God, I can't remember his name. He was Spanish, I think. I thought this came out of like, you know, you getting out there, getting some sex partners and testing all these things for us. Unfortunately not. do actually have a little jelly thing that he gave me and he said it can be quite good along the same lines of those egg sort of toys, but this one is sort of like a ribbed jelly thing and you can also, well you can also put it on the tip of the dick and all over the penis. You can also rub on your clit as well because it's like bumpy and can be quite pleasurable. So yeah, tip. Get one of those for Valentine's day. That'll make his day. Pop that blindfold on and tie his hands up and he'll be like, what is going on? Shit, yeah. That's amazing. I've got, I've got nothing exciting. I'm like, my, my list is things that I've been like over the years of GGO, just like, yeah, I'm going to add that to my list of one day. Add that to my list of one day. Yep. No go. Another thing I thought of was you're leading up to Valentine's day. nudes. some nice teasing nudes and they don't have to be full nude. You don't even have to show any nips or anything. I reckon one of the best positions I've seen for a little teaser, which I'm going to try and explain really well, is if you can find yourself like a full length mirror and sit in front of it fully naked, but cross your legs over and have your knees sort of up so that it actually covers your boobs and they can't see any of your vulva either. Then you're kind of taking a nude, but they're not. actually seeing anything. So it's a little, a little teaser one. could see that while they're at work or something. Perfect. my gosh. the imagination going. I'm sorry, but why are you single? I think a little bit of side boob or something. I'm not sure. think that could, I mean, I'm not, I don't have side boob to take the photo of, but if I had it, I'd be flashing it out there and you know. Side boobs great. But yeah, I've got like the old mom saggy side boob, think there needs to be a limit on how low the side boob is to be hot, to be honest. I feel like it needs to be. Do you know, I've actually got another good teaser nerd position that would be a good one. So you know when you lie flat on bed, you're lying flat on your bed, maybe put your undies on, pull them up a little bit, body's gonna look really nice and you can hold your hand and your arm over your nipples. So again, little teaser. And if you just take, if you hold the camera above you, so it's just sort of taking a picture of your torso. Okay. Take the photo and then rotate the image so that it's not like the wrong way and then send it. That's quite a nice angle as well. Huh. You're telling that one from experience. Yeah, that one's from experience. I'm a fan of that one too. I think when you say pull the undies up though, like let's not give wedgies here. I think you mean like. just over the hips, right? Like, yeah, you're wearing the sides over the hips and it gives you like a nice shape. Yeah. Or you could just keep you like bottom half covered by your duvet or something. Yeah. Yeah. Nice. It's always a nice one. Oh. And again, nice teaser. Haven't got it all yet. Keep you guessing. Yeah. And I actually, I actually love these. I haven't sent a nude since I was like 19. However, these, the teaser type. Like they said, sound a lot more doable, right? I reckon you have just inspired way more nudes to be sent. think it leaves a lot to the imagination too. mean, if I had not seen a nude until a couple of years ago, I was really like, I could never do that. But I think when you establish some trust with certain people, it can happily done and it can be, it can just be really fun. Yeah. No, love that. Love it. What else have you got? What else have I got? I'm just in the audience at this point. I also think general nude etiquette, like, just to be clear, um always have a conversation first around whether they're open to it, but also just to ground rules, like, just so we're clear, you know, the stays between us or something, and send it on disappearing on Instagram, which can't be screenshot or WhatsApp. I don't know if you can screenshot on WhatsApp either. You can send them so they only play once or something, but. You know, always be looking after yourself and our cyber security world. Yes, absolutely. I thought you could, you can screenshot on those disappearing Insta messages, can't you? But they get, you get notified that it has been screen shot. I tried to screenshot one the other day and it didn't, not a nerd, something else. And it wouldn't let me into screenshot technology. How good. Yeah. So there you go. um But obviously, you know, there's always ways around it, but. You know, we want to be, we want to keep ourselves safe at the same time. Um, what other nude positions do I have for you? I can't really think of any off the top of my head, but. Okay. Well, I'm going into the next one then. Go for it. And that is a toy in which your partner has the remote. You know, like putting all the control in their hands and even wearing it for the whole day on Valentine's like, know. And Viv has just done a distance thing. I was late to the podcast because I told my housemate, Devin, just hold the remote for me. Press it. said, we did it in the house and he was in the kitchen and I was in the bathroom. I kept walking away from him and I was like, it's still going. It's still going. I'm like, we're going to have to go outside. Come on the streets. He's like, I'm not going on the street with you. So he stood on the veranda. I walked down the street. There were people walking past me going to the bus stop. I've got this tadpole looking toy in my hand, walking down saying, are you pressing that? Hey, Brucey, yeah, yelling down the street. I got so far, had to text him. I was almost down at the shops and safe to say the range is quite far. I'm going to screw it up, but I reckon that was like 50 meters. Yeah, amazing. Maybe more. That just leads to so much fun, right? Like you can literally go and park outside your partner's work for the day and just have some fun. And again, if he had the blindfold on and you were giving oral, you could always, I reckon, turn that toy on and cause it's a nice, like, it's not heavy, but it's got a little bit of like weight to it. So it's like, it's like, it's a solid toy. It's a solid toy. If you push that into the space between his balls and his bumhole, like in his gooch, that is for a lot of people, very pleasurable. And I think it's because it goes through to the prostate, but I'm not a sexologist or an anatomist. So we're not going to. quote me on that one, but I think if you were putting that on vibrate and you either held it around his balls on his shaft, but also maybe gave it a little press and just watch his body and his face and see if he's enjoying that. Cause I think you'll find out quite quickly whether that's nice for him. Great idea. Great idea. Love that. And I think it's also good to note that it's, it's a quiet toy and especially when it's inside of you, there's no way anyone will hear that. Not a chance. They might hear you. They might hear you. It's got the little tail part that hangs outside of you so you can get it out. doesn't actually, that doesn't have a motor in it. So while some vibrations will filter through and you'll feel them a little bit, like if that's touching your clit, it's not like that's got a motor in it and it's going outside of you. So you don't need to worry about that. That'll be well hidden. Yeah, perfect. I you to go, I dare someone to go to the movies with it. I want to hear about, when Valentine's is over, I want to put some stories up and say, where did you take your Ted poll with you two? Where did you take your Ted poll? I mean, um we, yes, we could always add it to the list for this weekend. I'm not wearing a toy. To the movies. No. Okay. We have limits. um I if you could wear it onto a plane actually, since I'm going on a plane tour. 100%. Oh my God, imagine if you got buzzed at security. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. yeah, going through that security thing. Wonder if you'd get, maybe we need to Mythbuster try one time. I also think we need to do a separate podcast at some time that is everything Viv has made Devin do. It's so funny. I was talking to a friend the other day and she also has a bigger Instagram account. She said, oh, we're very serious. You you just heard me talk about keeping yourself safe. But when it comes to living with us, unfortunately, your consent doesn't really matter. You have no choice but to be our videographer in content. You've got to be. He refused to go on the street, but yeah, I said the other day, well, exclusive, we're bringing out some condoms, but we've been testing and so on. And in the testing phase I said, You need to try these for me. gave them to some other friends the other day and, um, yeah, I a bit of pushback sometimes, but you know, that's what he signed up for. Right. And like, think prerequisite for living with Viv now is to make your bed every morning because she will go in and use Dev's bed quite often for content as well. Cause that one's made nicely. Well, we actually just switched bedrooms and I was always in his bedroom cause it's got better lighting and he's got nice bidding. So we switch bedrooms now, but yesterday you should have seen he was at home sick, sleeping on his bed all day and I was like, he's this room, I can't use his bedding because he's asleep in it. So as soon as he came out to watch TV, I walked into his room, took his duvet, took his pillows, put them all over my bed. He doesn't care, he's like, oh God. And then yeah, put it back later, but I did actually just buy myself a white linen. target do they cover the other day? I feel it's going to be easier than taking all his bedding off every day and moving it across. was quite handy that he made it so nicely though. It's like it was just ready for you every time. Honestly, and the thing that I was cracking up about yesterday as well, I was filming some reels for the couple's box. I had my phone stuck to the window and I was sitting on my bed because again, best lighting in the house. I've actually got like neighbors, and there's probably four sets of neighbors. Actually, there's more than four. There's like maybe six, and they've all got windows that look into my bedroom. One guy definitely works from home because I can see him at his computer. And I've got my phone stuck to the wall, and I am putting my hands in restraints. I'm like stretching cock rings. I'm putting a blindfold on and chatting to myself, and they must just think, what is going on at that house? Oh my gosh, so good. Yeah, well, I just went and used my neighbor's house because it's got better lighting than mine. When no one was home to shoot some content of this couple's box and my friend's husband came home and I was, I was on their single velvet couch, like armchair thing in restraints with a blindfold on spinning, spinning the toy around. It's just like, what the fuck. That's what I mean. There's no consent. You just walked straight into their house and started filming content. like, you just don't have a choice. Yeah. think friends and flatmates. Yeah. look what you've signed up for. Yeah. I think anyone with a small business or friends with who have small businesses will understand. Yeah, absolutely. Ours just happens to be of the sex kind. Okay. The other thing I had for... I started reading my content ideas that I've written down. The other thing I had for some solo ideas, because we've got to look after ourselves at times like Valentine's Day. I actually had a really cool conversation a while ago and I've had this conversation a couple of times with different girlfriends and it's all around some, know, if you're feeling like you haven't been touched in a while and it's an actual, it is a real thing. Like if you feel like, you know, you might hug your friends and stuff and that's actually really good for you. But sometimes you just need to be like touched, know, sometimes, especially if you're hung over, you know, you might be lying in bed, you're like, oh, it'd just be nice if I had someone spooning me right now, you know, that it'd be feel nice. Joe's have not seen me hung over. I'm like, oh. But something that a lot of my friends do and that I'll do from time to time is get a massage because it's actually good for you to have like human touch. So that can be such a nice way. to just get into your body a little bit, relax, treat yourself. And I would also suggest, I mean, I've mentioned it a couple of times before, but taking an afternoon for yourself, take that Saturday morning, take the Valentine's day, it's a Friday night, and just treat yourself. Download the Coral app and go through some of the guided meditations to really relax yourself, get into your body, go through some of the guided masturbations. They're quite nice as well. You could use toys. um You could use something like the L wand that we have to give yourself a bit of like an internal massage and just really take your time and just enjoy yourself. That's always a nice way to ease into things and show yourself some really nice self-pleasure and care. Yeah. I think that's so helpful for a lot of our audience as well. that just don't even know where to start when it comes to a bit of self-care. yep, all of those tools are there. Go for a sauna. You could also, I mean, I've talked about my experience before we've had Morgan on the podcast, but something like a yoni mapping or a yoni massage, if you're open to that, that can be quite a self care gift. know Morgan's a great yoni, what do you call them? What do you call them? Practitioner or something like I know she's a great person for that in New Zealand. But I also know that for those outside of New Zealand or in different places, Ellie from Comfortable in My Skin, she has just set up a directory of all the different like yoni mapping. practitioners that she would recommend. So my gosh, amazing. And she's the best. She does photography of your vulva. So yes, she's the best. There's a present to yourself. There's a present to yourself. What else do you like to do for yourself? I haven't done it for ages, but I actually love going to the movies by myself. It's one of my favorite solo activities. With the remote. But that's, I love going to the movies by myself. The only time it's backfired is when I went to a movie and it said it was a comedy and I was like, okay, well it's gotta be a dark comedy or something. In fact, I would have found a dark comedy funny. It was definitely funny, but extremely sad. And I was like bawling my eyes out and I'm like, oh cool, now I've just gone to the movies by myself in my track pants and I've been crying for an hour and a half. And I just sent that message to one of my friends and I'm like, cool, just gonna catch the bus home, having cried in my track pants at the movies. There's other ways to go about it. Maybe pick your movie wisely. I've cried in Shrek though, to be fair, I need to stay away from movies. But is that because it's animals? Shrek's part animals. I don't want anything to do with animals. Don't you? No. It's just the second someone dies, I'm a crier and I'm like, somebody dies in every movie or something. dies in Shrek? Well, Shrek isn't even real people. And there was like... what character does? I don't remember or they broke up. So sad. Middle of the movie, like, you know, it's going to be a happy ending. just cry. a few years ago. Yeah, no, yeah. I'm just a, I'm just a movie crier. So I will avoid, but I think, I think one, if you haven't, booty plugs might be a good thing to try for Valentine's. Yes, love. Yep. Do you have any sitting beside you there? Do you happen to have any? Let me check my stack of sex toys that sits next to my desk. No, I don't actually. No. They're in the cupboard. uh So yeah, Peach is great beginner. We get, and I think I'm thinking of this from confessions and stuff, right? Like so many of our confessions are people wanting to try butt stuff or... Um, have just tried for the first time and stuff. So I think Valentine's is like, maybe a good day to just slightly push you out of your comfort zone to something that you've been wanting to try but haven't, you know what I mean? That you're a little bit worried about. And we've got these beginner butt plugs as well. Um, well, booty plugs that yeah, ideal. Yeah. I reckon things to know about butt play. eh join our Facebook group and watch Butt Play for Beginners. If you go into the Facebook group, it's like one of the pinned posts. Morgan is taking it. There's only two videos at the top with Morgan. It must be under the announcements or the pinned post section. And there's a Squirting 101 and there's a Butt Play for Beginners. Butt Play for Beginners is incredible. She talks through it amazingly. And I think always use something like Juicy for your lube. You want something that's gonna be lubricating. If you're gonna have like... If you're more experienced in butt play or something and you want to be having it for longer, water-based lube is always going to absorb into the skin a little bit more. So if you're using something like our Peaches toys, you need to be wearing, you need to have a water-based lube. So that's essential. But if you were just having like anal or something with a penis and no condom, then you want something, you could try something like a silicone lube for longer lasting. But if you're using condoms or any silicone toys, always water-based. And I think butt plugs can be fun solo or with a partner. You can have a booty plug-in and use an internal toy and get an idea of what it feels like to feel more fuller, have more pressure on your G-spot. You'll get an idea of what it feels like to have sex with someone with a butt plug-in, which is awesome. And uh I would also recommend just testing that out by yourself first too. know? Jo's always said she's not going to try that by herself. But I have been the sacrificial lamb for the butt plugs happily, but they are awesome. Like if you want to feel more pressure on your G-spot, then they're a great option. I also have a vibrating butt plug, so that can be a bit of fun as well. If you want like, reckon vibrating butt plug and Elle is a good combo because she's a great G-spot toy and the vibrations will go through that like glass wand. so it's just like everything's vibrating. It's so nice. But the peaches. that we have very beginner, very easy. And the great thing as well is if you're having sex with a partner, he can also have one. Like the prostate is super pleasurable for guys. And unfortunately we just live in a society where, which is so like, what do you say? We live in a homophobic society where people think that if you put something in your anus that somehow it makes you gay and that for some reason is seen as lesser value to some people, which. don't even get me started, but all it means is those people are missing out on pleasure potentially. And yeah, it can be super pleasurable for them as well. So don't discount like that two pack and having one each and like working your way up to something bigger and more exciting or vibrating, but definitely use them as like a starting point to get the fire burning. Love it. Love it. Okay. I'm out of ideas. You're out. you. The only other idea that I had was massaging each other. That's the only one I had. But yeah, think massaging each other and also the Yes No Maybe list. you know what? Sorry. If you go onto our website and click in the search bar, search for Yes No Maybe, that is the funnest game you can play with a partner. It is a list of a hundred different sex acts. So if you both have the Yes No Maybe list up on your phone, maybe you've got a bit of paper separately, Yes No Maybe to all the 100. and then come back together, have a glass of wine, have a relax. No judgment at all. Don't go, what, really? Would you? Like none of that. Just yes, no, maybe you want to match up things that you may never have even thought of. That could be a yes for both of you or maybe that you could explore more or no. And then you know each other's boundaries, right? um, such a great idea. That's also a really fun thing to do. needs to make its way onto our Linktree bio. So helpful. um helpful for couples. Love that. My only tip about the massage from previous experience is use that timer you suggested at the start because it makes sure like whenever I've been offered a massage, I shouldn't say previous, like with my last partner anyway, it was always like two minutes and then, you know, straight and it kind of, it really gives you the ick, you know, like if they You know, so at least if you've got a timer set for 10, 15 minutes or something, you feel safe. You know that, you know, that's where it's going to stay and you just enjoy it without waiting for a finger up there. A couple of tips about massage as well. You want to find yourself a nice oil that you can find them everywhere. Find a nice oil. You could use coconut oil if you want, like whatever, but also put like you can, I've had massages in the past when we put towels down, but they're not wide enough. Like you need a freak sheet or something. so that you're not going to worry about like, don't get on the bed or like, you know, rolling over and then getting oil on your nice sheets or something. So Freak Sheet can be nice to just peace of mind. You don't have to worry about anything getting on there. then someone to follow. for Be There, it feels more lush. Like, I'm sorry, but crusty towels. Yeah. And I agree about the timer too. Like you normally pay for a message for 60 minutes. take half an hour, just relax. just anything like that where you're being touched, you're just relaxing and you don't have to worry about what's next or if you should be doing something, then it just takes the, it just helps you to, as women we're always thinking about way too many things. So it just helps to give you that time and it'll fly by. But one guy to follow who is awesome for couples massage. His name is Dennis Merckhaas. I'm going to butcher that. I'll put it in the description. Dennis D-E-N-I-S and then M-E-R-K-A-S. So he's got a YouTube channel and he's also got a great Instagram account. So if you want any like tips for how to massage your partner, um I'm just going to check his Instagram name. Yeah, that's just his Instagram name as well. He's an incredible teacher for couples massage. So if you want some hot tips and stuff. Honestly, if it was me and I was setting a 30 minute timer, I would not know what to do. I'd probably lie them down and put a YouTube video on mute next to me and just watch the YouTube video and do it. You know? okay, you know? That's so funny. And then I don't have to think about, cause my brain, I'm like, I'll do a bit of this, do a bit of this, do a bit of this, but it's probably better if you're just, you know, working on the arm for a little bit longer or like working on the back or throw a body slide in there or something, you know, taking your time. So. And the- wouldn't hurt to step by step. I'm all about the black and white, you know? Give me some instructions to follow. And the way you just said that, a bit of this and a bit of that. I'm like, key to massage is lower it down. Like, let's not go- I know. So I think anywhere you can get a bit of guidance, cause we're not born massage experts. Go and check him out. No. Perfect. Love it. Um, now to, now to find us a Valentine's date so we can use our own tips, Viv. Exactly. Anyway, let us know how Valentine's day goes. If you've got any questions, flick us a DM as always. We're always so happy to help. 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