Blow His Mind + Dirty Talk with AJ Paps

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Hello and welcome back to the Girls Get Off podcast. Today on the show we have AJ Papps who is one of Australia's most well known and followed sex educators with over 600,000 followers and 22 million likes across social media. He runs the adult boutique Missionary to Madam and hosts the Missionary University podcast where he breaks down sex, dating and relationships. AJ's content helps normalize conversations about pleasure offering practical advice that resonates with millions worldwide.

Plus he is hilarious and we are so happy to have him on the show today. Welcome to the podcast AJ, how are you today? Hello ladies, I've missed you. We haven't done this in like what, two years? Three years? you were one of our first. One of our first. How coincidental. And look at you now, look at you now. I at a young pub, that was in that room in the city. Yeah, hired a little room.

It was. Now with downgrader we're all remote, but I think it's more even this way. Ah, better.

All right, AJ, you've been cranking your Instagram content lately. You're obviously one of Aussie's best sex educators. And we couldn't help but notice lately that the people couldn't wait to hear more about your dirty talk tips. So we want them for ourselves. Well, listen, you know, it's going to soft spot for girls get off, you know, so is how we get your girl off. No, wait, are we talking to men or women? We didn't think that far. Yeah, let's do both.

I think it's very important to remember this because dirty talking can be shy because you're sitting there with the anxiety of like, what you're going to be like, good girl. Fuck is she into that? that? Like number one thing is stay calm for both sit like stay calm. Don't overthink it. You're going to be like popping and dropping and you're like, yeah, good girl. And then you're like, I too loud?

Jo (02:33.903)

And then you're going to lose your rhythm. You're going to lose your erection. You're going to lose this, you're going to lose that. the number one tip is just commit, stay committed and start with like a lower tone. Don't start with the like, got to back it back it back it down a little bit. know, like don't just calm down. the fuck down. They're cussing. Yeah. Calm the fuck down. like tip number one then is take anxiety meds beforehand.

Listen, I'm anti meds, so don't do that. Just Wim Hof. We do Wim Hof. We do Wim Hof. Okay. Be more wholesome than me. I would just like down some anxiety meds. Are you dirty talking AJ? Are you only ever dirty talking in person or are you doing those over text as well? Cause I feel like there can be different strategies here. I'm a voice memo guy. Okay. Me personally I send voice memos, but I think like to be honest.

Like you can dirty, I'm not the best dirty talker. I'm more of a bantide cheeky like, did you just say that? But you got it's tone. Listen, tip number two, everything is reality. you always win when you slow down your voice. You slow, don't get me cause I'm all excited cause I'm speaking to the girls get off. Women like I get excited. My high pitched voice is out by like, if I'm dirty talking, you got to lower the tone. Drop a little bass in the voice.

Slow it down a little bit. You know, just imagine you're on her Quinn app. Someone said to me the other day, they're like, you sound like you're from Quinn. I'm like, that's a compliment. That's a compliment. Tip number two for the gentlemen, slow your voice down. Lower it down. As if you like speaking to, I don't someone who you're trying to like, not intimidate them, but like, you want to calm them down. You're not going to be like, hey, calm down. You're like, listen, man, calm down. Like calm down. It's all right.

We got this, we'll work through it together. Oh, I'm going to fluster already. Do you know what I mean? Like finality. Very important. then look. I feel like we could like have you say a phrase that is totally not sexy, but if you do that, slow it down. All right, give me Deeper voice. Okay. I've really got to hang the washing out. I really got to hang the washing out. See?

Jo (04:55.249)

My heat phones fell off and got too excited. Look at that. Why are we going to take the washing off? They all pointed me to putting the washing out so I can take it off you. Oh my God, I'm getting flustered. think these walls are thin. The neighbors in the neighboring office are like, what the fuck is going on here? We don't go to HR departments. Oh, look out. How good. And look, never lose... Look, if you're someone who doesn't know what to say to them, like you don't know what they want to be called.

good girl or dirty little whore or a good boy, please I don't call you for any future lover. Like if my future wife is listening, do not call me good boy. When they say it in my comments is like, thanks so much for the engagement, you react, good boy. Cause my little brothers, they've got this little thing, they've got this thing now where it's like, there's a meme and he'll be like, a guy walks up to a cop and he's like, what's your badge number? And he gives him badge number he's like, good boy. It's just so odd.

I just built my brother for that. can't say I've ever had a request to call someone a good boy. That is something that I would say to a dog. It's a world though because a girl would probably like good girl, you know? Of course, yeah. You drop a little spontaneous good girl even in a general conversation. Little energy pop, little flutter. Like, okay, you're a little praise kink. No, dude, let me a little gold star on that forehead. Yeah, we've all got a little praise kink here and there.

What else are you saying to them? I mean, some people are into quite hardcore things. It's just whatever floats your boat. I also think you've kind of got to try a few flavors to figure out what you really like. Like, I feel like you won't know until you're sort of in the moment. Maybe they're saying it into your ear, while you're playing with yourself or something like that can always be a good way to things out. to listen that too. you also like the number one tip for anything. The best tip that I ever give when it comes to sex, learn to communicate with your lover. Learn just...

Don't be scared to ask. Asking gets you like, you cut the fat out. You, you cut out like, if you don't ask, let's say for example, I go and make love with someone. Okay. And I, instead of me not going into a blind, I can have a honest, like cheeky little communication, like conversation about it. Doesn't need to be like overly sexual as fuck. you know, what are you into? You know, where do I got to stay away from? That's always good because when you say where do I got to stay away from?

Jo (07:21.136)

You're respecting the other person's boundaries. And we love that. Very pro that. Like we want to respect other people's boundaries. don't, cause the last thing you want to do as well is kill the mood. Like she's got a praise king. wants to be good girl. When you're from the back and you're like, yeah, you're a dirty little whore. She's going to what fuck do you call me? You know, like to stop that situation and, kill the mood, communications in place, you know, what don't you like? I think starting with what don't you like is very, very important because

then you're navigating so many different awkward situations that don't need to happen in the future. And they are cool. If that's what you don't like, I'd love to hear what you like. We love a considerate lover. We love someone who actually wants to get to know what gets our body off. Exactly. My line for this one, I always like to say, tell me about your desires. You know, I'm thinking about my target market, make it about them. I want to hear everything that they like so that I can like sort of Your target market.

What do you mean? Are you talking to men or women? Yeah, men. if I'm thinking... Which man's going to understand desires? Is that a Drake song? Like come on. Let's be real. I feel like that's something moving. Yeah, tell me all about it. Yeah, and then I get down to what they really like. No, that's weird. Well, try it out. then if they decide about, listen, what gets you off? Oh yeah. What gets you off? I think you might only get...

But then you might only get like a few little things. feel like when I ask about desires, get like, I could get anything from what they like sometimes, any fantasies, like you get a whole range. And then he starts telling you his life goals, like by 30, I want to have like an appai-monic, cheese and all that. I want to know if you want to get pegged on that. What are you talking about? Yeah. Shout out Peggy Sue, baby. That's so good. What about you, Joe? How do you communicate your dirty talk and your desires? Or sorry, what gets you off or what gets them off?

No, my biggest pick up here is cause we've, just like understand at the moment you get drunk, dirty talk from Joe and that's it. But my biggest thing is if a guy said the wrong thing, like I'm done. I've, I've got the ick and it's like, know, so that like, yeah, for me, it's like, how do you like being spoken to during sex, you know, or like what do you dislike? Cause that's a great thing because.

Jo (09:42.438)

If you like hit that dislike, I'm done. It's like, shut off. And you never lose saying their name to them. That's what I've learned. Say the right name though. I have said the wrong name before. That's the tequila talkie. Yeah. So that's my postman. I've got a package coming tomorrow morning. That's why I can't rave like. Now by saying, saying their name and like, you're a, if you're a, actually, but it works for both. Saying their proper name. Like.

You know, if a girl says to me, my name is Jen. I'm like, okay, Jennifer. Yeah, Jennifer. like, I'll stick to Jennifer. It's like, Oh, okay. Like, you know, it's, I don't know what it is. think it's like, me with a Joelle then AJ. Joelle. Okay. Oh, I like Joelle. Joelle's different. Ooh, Joelle. Hello. I don't know. If someone called me Vivian in the bedroom, it's, I don't know. Yeah, but like in your tone of like the way Vivian, like you get Vivian.

Like you're low the bass, you're sitting on a low bass. You're like, ooh, it reminds me of that scene from the movie. It's like, sit down or I'll sit you down. Say their full name. Okay. Full name. Hot tip. Yeah. I always say Vivian when I'm like taking the piss out of you or something Viv will like, or I'm getting grumpy at you in stories. He'll be like, Vivian. Yeah. What in stories? Oh, only friends I went to high school with, you know, I'm traveling or something like Vivian, know, yelling at me.

That, that, there's only certain people in my life who call me Vivian from time to time. It's like when they call me Andrew. I'm like, listen, there's two people in this world. They call me Andrew is my grandmother and my mother. You, you cannot tell me you were getting off by someone saying Andrew. Freaks me out. Freaks me out. It's like, Andrew. I'm like, honey, the only time I hear Andrew is when it's a government official that I haven't corrected them to call me AJ.

or like Andrew is just like, yeah, you're not. I'll call you Andrew. said, you ain't calling me fucking Andrew. It's AJ like see the AJ or Papi or boss. No, what are you trying to be my mother? my gosh. You want to, you want to mother me out? Well, I don't want to mother you then don't call me Andrew.

Jo (12:04.63)

Right. So make sure you get their name right though, because the amount of times people call me like Jolie or Joelle or something else or Joel, like, yeah. Can you imagine? you? Yeah, the wrong, the thing is like, what the fuck should say? I have aborted the situation on less, think. Another good tip for women is stop fucking moaning when you're doing the wrong thing. Men are like, we're like puppies. No, no, no. We're like puppies.

Let me tell you, I can say it I'm a guy. So if there's always gonna be that one person like, why are you referencing us as like dogs? Because it's just the perfect reference. We're puppies. Do you know what mean? If I'm sitting there licking your left kneecap instead of licking the clitoris, of course, and you're like, oh yeah, just like that. Oh, I love that. I love that. I love that. My brain registers that you like that. So the next time, the next time or the next 3000 times we have sex,

I'm going to lick your neck, kneecap thinking you like it. So stop like saying things and say, just like that, or I'm enjoying it or it's perfect or it's this, it's that when it's not, you know, but when it does the right thing, go like double down. Andrew, go Andrew, go. You know?

Yes, Andrew. Someone DM'd us the other day saying, how should I tell my boyfriend he hasn't made me orgasm in the last five years that we've been together? she fucked up from the start. Like, she fucked up from the start. I didn't want to come across too harsh, but the thing was, that at the end of the day, your orgasm is your responsibility. When you've got a vulva, it's not like, it's not a penis. You can't see it just going hard. It's potential. It's not always as obvious as to what might be working or not working.

And to your point Ajay, you've got to give people guidance. You've got to give guys guidance. It doesn't matter if they've been with a thousand other people before you, everyone's different. Everyone likes different things. So it's so important that you communicate what you're actually into. Otherwise you could spend five years and not be having those O's. And look, the good thing is, what women's bodies change lot more than what men's bodies do, especially hormonally. So you can actually sit there and use that as an excuse and say, babe...

Jo (14:16.953)

My body is not responding to the same things that it responded to. But I think it's my hormones. don't know what's going on. Can we try see if this works? I was talking to some of the girls at the gym or you could just blame an authoritative figure. Uh, I was listening to the sexologist talk. was listening to, um, my doctor and she, she recommended that if we try it like this, he's not going to get offended. You know, because it's the way your body, your body's changing. Do you know what mean? And then you slowly guide him.

That's if you haven't fucking done it from the start. That's if you've been, I've been in a 15 year relationship that's never made me cum. Then what the fuck have you been doing the last 15 years? Yeah. You need that positive reinforcement. Good boy. Good boy. know? Keep it up. Don't do that. Do not do that. Are we not using the dog analogy anymore? no, no, no, no. They'll pat his head and give him a treat. Give him a shwanko. Good boy. Yeah. Or spritz him with the water bottle if it's not. No, wrong way. No, that's not it.

In fact, get him a shock collar. Hey, works, whatever works. What even works. But bottom line is regardless of whether it's dirty talk or anything else in the bedroom, 100 % positive reinforcement. Also, about it beforehand goes a long way. Always. I did notice on my last sexual encounter though, that see, I'm very good at, somebody asked me a couple of months ago, like something about good or bad sex. I'm like, you know what? I don't even remember having bad sex. Like my bad.

sex was, you know, seven years plus ago. of thing. Because to me, it's always good now because I know what I like. And if, if like something isn't happening from their side, I know how to make myself like it. But by doing that, they're probably thinking it's all them as well. Do you tell them what you do for, I've got a question. Do you tell them what you do for work? Yeah.

Yeah. if I'm, if I'm on the apps talking to people, I'll avoid it until say I meet them in person, but I just don't think it's important. And I don't think they need to like stalk me beforehand. Yeah. Well, it's different. You're a woman. Like for safety. I don't care if they stalk me. What are going to do? Rock up to my house? no. Well, I think some people, the feedback I've had is that it can be maybe they think I'm some kind of freak or they'll, I don't want them to create a picture of who I am in my head before they meet me. That's, that's what I'm going for.

Jo (16:42.007)

That's my issue. I have, I have like, think that I'm some fucking doodle Houdini. I'm like, honey, I lost 30 seconds like everyone else. Like I don't like I'm no don't. Cause it, it, it actually ruined it. I find that like, I haven't had the, like back on bad sex, like I've had moments where I've had bad sex. It's not bad. It's not bad sex. Cause I always, you never have bad sex if you prioritize her foreplay.

That's biggest key. Words to live by. you, it's never bad sex. If you, if you focus all on her, you're never going to lose. You might not be able to get it up. You might not be able to fuck it. Like you might not last long, but if you spend more time on her, it's never bad sex. Of course, when I was younger, I like it. You know, you don't really realize that, but as you get older, you realize that the longer you spend.

on the warmup phase, it, everything else sort of, it doesn't become irrelevant, but it doesn't, isn't as impacted or affected. So I find now that I have to explain to people that I talk to them, it's funny because for someone who's in adult industry, don't, I behave myself a lot more than what people might expect. That some people like have this perception like you must be a whore. I'm like, I'm a business. Like this is, I love to do this for business. I'm not.

some info that decided to start a sex company like, which that's totally fine. We love that, but that's not the end of the business that I came into. Yep. Us too.

No, did you just use Nympho's that created because of that? What's that? Are we Nympho's because of GGO? Oh, I thought you just wanted to create a sex toy company. For business. Yeah, that's the same. They look at me like I'm some fucking Nympho maniac cause I give advice and sell toys. I'm like, on Arnie, like no, slow down. And it puts this pressure on. And that's, I think it's another important thing is like, no, no matter what.

Jo (18:41.621)

You should always go into everything with sort of like a blank canvas. And I think for both, I think for both of our businesses, like at the end of the day, what we're trying to do is make it normal and make it like, make it not such a big deal and have just achieve the pleasure that they want to have. So when people think that it's, my God, you might be quite freaky or something. It's just because we have grown up in a world where that's just been so taboo, but actually it's the complete opposite of that. I'm sure we're a lot more open-minded than.

Maybe the next person, which I'm all about, but I think that's, that's what's important about making it all normal. Yeah. You want to say freaky. I'm like, no, I'm just good at marketing. You think I'm good businessman. good at marketing, but I always say to like any like new lover. just explained to him, look blank canvas. Don't have this perception. Don't think that, you know, I'm going to give you 17,000 orgasms. That's not how this goes. Like the more you put me on the pedestal.

Nah, seriously, the more you put me on a pedestal, the more you ruin it. just, your body's a blank canvas to me, my body's a blank canvas to you. Let's start, like we adventure together. And that's the amazing thing when you communicate and you find a good partner is like, it becomes an adventure. Like no matter the experience levels, no matter the thing, the good thing about experience levels is that it allows you to, you you enjoy the same hiking track.

but you avoid the mishaps that might come along the hiking track rather than try to, you know, walk ahead because you're more experienced. I like that. We were, we were going to ask you dating advice for me, AJ, and I think you've just nailed it without us even asking. I said this the other day. said dating is an adventure. You know, you can look at it. You can look at the apps as dreadful. You can look at, you can look at it as scary.

Men are pieces of shit. Women are crazy. Blah, blah, blah. She just wants me for my money. No, she doesn't cost of living, honey. Um, like you, know, but the minute, the minute you change your attitude and you flip your attitude to it's not scary. It's not intimidating. It's an adventure. I'm just going to see it as an adventure. You'll be surprised to all the amazing places that you end up. I, couldn't agree more. It's a confirmation bias, right? That's why.

Jo (21:02.489)

Um, I think that there are, always say that there are good men everywhere because there are. And if you choose to then focus on the opposite, then, which I, which I see a lot of people do, um, you just end up finding that finding some of That's the thing we live in. Yeah, live in such a negative world that everything's like, you know, I'll do a good post about what's my call. Like I did a post the other day about my best friend. So my best friend's partner, she moved to.

Italy for a couple months to study architecture. And she's living there. They're doing the whole long distance thing. And like, these two people love each other. Like I'm not talking cause it's my best friend, like adore each other. And he went and organized a nice romantic dinner for her. The first, within the first couple of days of her getting there without her knowing. It's like, baby be at this place, this restaurant, his direction, be they 7 30. You already paid for the bill. Like, I think he picked out a couple of things that you should look like.

Proper romantic, proper, like I roll with some hitters, you know, like we got, I've got good men around me. And then there's always going to be someone in the comments like, ah, they're far away from each other. They're probably cheating on each other. Don't you fuck with, no, your fucked up twisted brain thinks that. No, not everything is negative. Do you know what I mean? Cheating, they're both trained two times a day now and just hang, he's with me more. I'm not banging him, he's not banging me. Do you know what I mean? Like it's just.

can just... People... That is the hardest bit about this business is trying to like re-trigger in people's brains like no, you can have the love you want, you can have the sex you want, you can have the pleasure you want, you can have the lover you want. You just have to decide that you're going to have it. And then that's when it slowly starts to fall into place. So your dating life is an adventure. It's not like, it's a joke, but I don't want to go on the app. I'm just keep getting dick pics. Well, that's a good thing. Maybe they like you. Of course.

Dick pics are not a good thing, rather get me sent dick pics and then no dick pics. You know what I mean? Like, thank you kind sir for the support. You know what I mean? Yeah. Maybe ask next time. Although I think people are pretty good now, not sitting. Of course. Don't even send them, but like, you know what I mean. Because you're a sex educator, you've got a really good relationship with your community online. What do you think are some of the trends that people, what do you think some of the common themes are?

Jo (23:26.417)

that people are asking you in the DMs in terms of dating at the moment. I'd say one thing publicly, fuck that Marty bloke, whatever his name is, the one who said that Endo is unreal, suck a dick brother, post that. I didn't see that. I didn't even know about that. Well, yeah, fuck you. like to see, I understand you're a comedian and like you make comedy, cool.

But to see and say endo is a real, I know I'm on a tangent now, but to see and say endometriosis is not real, you're a fuck we like you're actually a fuck we. You know, like, come on man. So many women suffer from it and like, you know, women go through surgeries. Australian, the Australian government does fuck all to help subsidize it or help those who go through surgeries. And you're sitting there saying it's not real. completely invalidates so many women that have it.

Not only so many women, so many mothers, so many sisters, so many girlfriends, so many friends, like the fuck, like how fucking stupid are you? You know, like I hope that your fucking apology is just as public as your fucking disrespect. Sorry, I had to go on that tangent. perfect. Well, we talked about. I'm saying like, other than say what we just talked about in terms of how people are seeing dating and approaching it. Is there anything else? Is there any things?

Is there any, is there anything else that's coming through your DMs that you're seeing as being bit of a trend, even perhaps something that people would like to learn more in the bedroom or some gaps in the knowledge? What are they asking you? The amazing thing is, so I've been in the industry 11 years now, since I was 18 years old, am I 29? If my math is math-ing. Yes, we made that clear before. Yeah. So I have found that people are becoming so much more open. Like for example, I had a lady take my

a blow job course the other day. And, and then literally a week later, she ordered a whole bunch of toys for her partner. And then she called my school, talking, talking to my staff and they're I watched AJ's videos and we were so quiet and now we just love it. And now she's got fucking out in public toys and this and blow job courses. Like I am finding that the trend is people are opening up. They're learning, they're understanding their body.

Jo (25:38.975)

They're realizing that them understanding their body and want to pleasure themselves and have sex doesn't make them a slut, doesn't make them awful, doesn't make them this. It makes them human. We are on this earth for one life. We should enjoy ourselves, understand our bodies. The best way to understand our bodies, to learn about our bodies as well. That's what makes your brain so phenomenal as well. Teaching women, giving them the opportunities and the toys to learn to discover their bodies then. Because when we first discover our bodies, we get to show others how our body unfolds.

You know, you don't know if your body unfolds, but I get constantly, probably the most questions asked, what a good beginner's voice. And it's my favorite question. I don't care how many times that I answer it. It's my favorite question because it's someone that's going from the dark to the light. You know, it's like, that's phenomenal. I don't care how old you are. You're 34, 30, 80, 90, fucking seven. Like my oldest client was 94. But it is so amazing. I don't think he's longer with us because I was like 10 years ago about Preston Creek's King, but you know, like.

The thing is the longer, the more you start to open up and explore, the better your life becomes. Everyone's got to bust a nut. Everybody's sex life is going to be better for this hate because like over the, don't know, for my first like what 20 years or something of sex life, it's all like the whole understanding was sex was until the male came and then like that's it. And no wonder why like when female pleasure just wasn't

Like all your partner's pleasure wasn't even part of the equation. No wonder why so many women weren't into it as much as men, you know, but it's kind of going to change everybody's sex life. Well, the clitoris certainly came about like what, two years ago? Yeah, it's a whole new thing. I didn't even, you know what, other than that fuck weed I said, the endo doesn't exist. I'll be honest. I don't think the clitoris exists because I'm...

Years we've been searching and not one man has found it yet. I think it's mythical. It's like a, it's like the Lochnecks monster. It's only been in like the theory books of like medicine and stuff for two years, right? Like it's wild. The government's lying to us. They're saying the aliens aren't real and the clitoris isn't, and the clitoris is real. I think they got it the wrong way around. I think aliens are real and the clitoris is fake. Yeah.

Jo (28:00.98)

They've put more money into studies on aliens than the clitoris. I think actually on an actual real life story note, I have had a woman probably in her fifties, well into her fifties with her partner walk up to me at a show and say, I really struggled to find my clitoris. That was, I pointed her in the right direction of where to find some good resources, but honestly, it just goes to show how not when we didn't talk about it enough, when people only learnt from porn and things like that.

When, you know, there's still a lot of that happening, how people just miss out on so much pleasure, but you've got to take the time to learn about yourself. There's a thing that I learned. It's the row your boat method. you imagine an old man in a boat. Okay. Fishing. So he's in a row boat. I'm going to try to draw this the best that I can. And now obviously ward has like planks. So row boat, row boat. And then this is the old man. So.

What do you, like little road coming out of your vagina. Go see a doctor immediately. But he's, know, you know, they sit at the top of the boat and they row. And then that's, yeah. You're a bit blue. I actually can't even, I can't even see it. Is this, is this how to find the clitoris? Oh, this is how we're finding it. we anything with our fingers to this? That's how we think we find it. Can you see it? Can you see my clitoris? Oh yeah. Now we can see the clitoris. Yes.

Love that analogy, that's a great one. You went so silent for a second. was like, did I fuck this up? I was looking at it. like, I fuck this up? But then I just realized it was just puffering. No, you just froze. So we couldn't hear anything. I'm like, oh, did I fuck this up? No, I think that's great. And I think, you know, if you can't initially find the little man, well, get rowing, get rowing a little bit more, get rowing till he gets a bit sweaty and sweaty and puffy and red. And then you'll be able to, you'll be able to find him. Find him.

Find your man's. Find your man's. think the good thing is like the most questions I get is how to spice it up as well. How do I, look, the great thing about education is my courses have been blowing up of like, you know, I'm finding more and more people are open to learning and understanding and loving the fact that they can learn. And, know, just from the reviews themselves, I see how many people that go and do do the things that I tell them to do. then they're like, my husband has never felt like that before. They love it. I still want to see you.

Jo (30:28.776)

I still want to see you do the real demos AJ on a dildo or something. feel like that was the only missing piece to your BJ brilliance course. Yeah, well sometimes, know, rather myself an eight out of 10 than a 10 out of 10. Thank you. Someone actually said that to me. I messaged AJ after I watched, I said, come on AJ, it'd just, I know we love the whiteboard, but it'd just be a little bit better if I saw you do a deep throating demo on an actual toy. You know? That'd really wrap it all together for me. And you know, as we're talking at the...

the start of the episode boundaries are very important. You know, you're going to, you know, when they ask you what you don't like, that's what I don't like. Hey, deep brooding is not for everyone AJ, that's okay. I'm a quitter. I love it. Well, on that note then to round this one out, have you got any, maybe your top tip for blowing his mind? What can a lot of our audiences, obviously women, so what should they take away with themselves today? Give us a teaser. Look, okay, so

It's funny because you know what doubling down on the question about what do I get asked the most? A lot of it, a lot of it's got to do with confidence. You have to, you have to go in there and think there's a, I forgot what I'm going to name. There was a creator called Taylor and I think Taylor, I forgot what her last name was anyway. She was on my old account and she said this tip and it was, it was actually fantastic. You have to go in there. Don't physically imagine it cause you'll probably be, vomit and be sick, but

Imagine as if his ex is watching you and she said this she's like imagine his ex is watching you and you have to put on a performance of a lifetime You're gonna go in there jacked up amped up like fuck this bitch is gonna get a master class Let me show her who the real do let me show her why he's with me like I think confidence and energy men like get turned on by that and if he doesn't get turned on if he's intimidated fucking off by like

confidence and energy and like get ramped up and just, just know that it's about to go down. Like, you know, when you're getting there like that and she does the whole little, I'm with the demon. You're too fuzzy and lagging. can't tell what you just did. Also, you're not censored. What do you mean not censored? I guess for an Instagram clip, you don't, don't have to, you can say the words. We're not on Instagram right now.

Jo (32:52.522)

Talk me it. I couldn't see you were blurring. All right. So when you're giving him head, you know when you're getting head and then they put the, I've only seen this in the movie. This isn't from personal experience, but you know when they do the, they get the hair back and then they, with the hair tied. But I don't have hair so I can't do it, but like, you know, it's about to go down. You were about to get the best head you've ever gotten in your life. It's that confidence, confidence and energy. That's so relatable.

They're like you are this shit, you know, but do know what on that note? I do not think it is talked about enough how often you'll be looking nice which often includes your hair down and then you go into the bedroom and you start to go down on someone and it's just it's a fiasco. So I don't really want them like can you hold my hair? Maybe not. It's like I've got to find a hair tie. It's everywhere You know, you can't really get all into it if there's like here in your mouth. He thinks he's some fucking world-class hairdresser doing all this shit like

I'm like, no, you're not holding it properly and you're probably just better off relaxing anyway. I'm like fishing around in my drawers for a hair tie. That's actually, that's actually a hot tip. Keep a, keep a hair tie on your wrist. Yeah. There you go, Joe. You're ready to go. Joe's ready to get drunk and get ready. Yeah. Every guy at That's how she picks up men at the bar. She goes to the bar and they're like, what the fuck is that thing on your wrist? Wouldn't you like to know, Ready at a moment's notice.

I heard we got some exciting news. That's right. I'm so excited. Yeah. How are we going to end this one without hinting without dropping? Well, feel like, I feel like AJ, this is just, this is just the, this is just the natural next progression for like GGO versus AJ Papp's relationship. Isn't it? Yeah. Let's put it this way. We get off. We get off.

And I think what the surprise is coming, I mean, you've already alluded to it, AJ, in your stories. We're going to do a bit of a little product together, which we're excited about, but all the stuff that we've talked about today in terms of what people want, what they'd be messaging in about, where, know, in terms of confidence and stuff like this, I feel like this product solves all of it. First timers, experience, had everyone. is something for everyone. Girl on girl.

Jo (35:19.04)

Boy on boy, boy on girl. You know what I mean. Everyone. Say, throw up walls. We got you. Everyone. Everyone can get it. It's exciting. I can't wait for everyone to see. Did it flustered. Exciting. No, we're very excited. I'm going start talking like a fucking canary. I can't say it because if people come like, I can't rub a bank with this bloke and snitch me in. Let's just say we got a little something something. Wipes you on the way.

A phenomenal product. We've got a little something spicy. Powerful. And AJ is going to have all the tips. Can't wait. Were you going to say something before, Joe? I was going to say something, but now I forget like what you actually said, Viv, but your voice went low and it slowed down. And I was like, you nailed it. Yeah, you nailed that. My DJ voice. The dirty talk. Late night DJ voice.

Ready for the new product. we end this with announcement coming soon? Announcement coming soon. We'll do another podcast episode. Yep. It's like, it's going to be out. There's not much of a teaser. It's going to happen quickly, but they're also going to go quickly because they're going to be, they're going to be hot products. So I cannot wait. The one thing I'm going to warn people. Is that low tone again? Listen, listen, listen, Listen, let me, let me tell you.

Come here, come here, let me tell you. I'm not going to tell you what to do, you know, but I'll tell you one thing to do is when it's announced, when it's available, get in quick because it's going to finish quick. what mean? Stop it. It's going to be like, it's going to be like that man you sleep with when you use all our tips. You're going to be out the door quick.

Jo (37:13.504)

Look out. Yay. All right. Hot things coming soon. Stay tuned. I mean, it's not going to be very long till it's launched after this podcast, but happy days. If you've got questions, excitement, send them through and we'll see AJ soon for another podcast when it's released. Ladies, I love you. You're the best. Peace and love. See you AJ. Thanks so much. good. my gosh. How good.

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