BOOTY PLAY

Anal play is all about exploring those extra sensitive nerve endings in and around your bum/butthole/bootyhole/anus. Whether you’re chasing new pleasurable sensations or just want to try something a bit naughty, anal play can bring next level pleasure and even mind blowing orgasms. At Girls Get Off, we say: if it feels good, you’re doing it right.

Absolutely, queen! Anal toys are safe when you use non-porous body safe materials (like silicone or stainless steel), always choose toys with a flared base like Peaches (so nothing gets lost amongst the fun), and listen to your body. Lube is your BFF here as the anus does NOT self lubricate. Don’t be shy, lather it on and enjoy the ride.

Start small, go slow, and don’t forget lube such as Juicee (seriously, you can never use too much). Try a finger or a slim beginner plug, take deep breaths, and relax. There’s no rush to the finish line. Anal/butt-play should never hurt, I repeat, BUTT PLAY SHOULD NEVER HURT, so if something feels off, just pause and try again later. You’re the boss of your own booty and the bigger the object, the slower, relaxed and practised you will need to be.

Yes, yes, yes! The anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so lube is non-negotiable for comfort and safety. Water-based lube is safe for all toys and keeps things slippery in all the right ways. If you’re using a stainless steel or borosilicate glass toy then you can look at a silicone or oil based lubricant which will last longer on the skin.

Keep it fresh, babes. Wash your toys before and after play with warm water and unscented soap or a toy cleaner like Afterbanger. For extra peace of mind, you can boil most non-electronic toys such as Peaches. Check the user manual before boiling. Dry them off and store somewhere clean, ready for your next spicy session.

Sharing is caring, but safety is sexy. If you’re sharing toys, pop a new condom over the toy for each person and give it a thorough clean between uses. Keep things fun and germ-free!

Anal play should NEVER be painful. Start with smaller toys, use loads of lube, and skip numbing creams. They can mask pain and lead to injury. If you feel discomfort, stop and try again another time. Your pleasure, your pace. If you want to ‘train’ and work your way up to bigger toys or objects, check out The Bottoms Digest on YouTube for excellent how-to's. 

If you’re new to the game, start with 15 to 30 minutes. As you get more comfortable, you can wear your plug for longer, but never more than a few hours at a time. Listen to your body, she knows besttt.

Look for toys made from body safe silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass like Elle. All silicone toys at Girls Get Off are made from medical-grade silicone, which is the best possible and most expensive silicone available. Always ensure there’s a flared base, handle, or retrieval method on your anal toy. This keeps things safe, comfy, and helps avoid any unexpected trips to the ER.

Hell yes! Anal toys can turn up the heat in solo or partnered play. The secret sauce? Open communication, consent, and a sense of adventure. Explore together and find what makes you both say “yes, please!”