In this article you’ll find:
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Best sites for ethical porn
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Best places to find smut
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Best audio porn recos
Gather round queens; the time has come to discuss porn.
The internet is a bottomless buffet when it comes to resources that are meant to make you wetter than a session with Elle. From videos to e-books, audio, and, let's be honest, a raunchy Netflix show, there is no shortage of things that make your Queen V tingle.
But not all of it is five-star dining - especially for women.
Up until a few years ago, women watching porn was a bit of a hush-hush situation - heck, it still is. Here at Girls Get Off, though, we're all about owning your pleasure, and that includes your pleasure tools, whether they're vibrators or porn.
So, to make sure you've got everything you need to have an extra spicy solo sesh, here's where you can find your fave sex toys, and here's where you can find your fave porn:
1. Ethical Porn—Because Consent Is *Chef's Kiss*
We're about to shock your jocks off with this one…. As it turns out, watching people genuinely enjoy themselves during spicy times makes a HUGE difference to your own experience.
Just kidding, you already knew that, and a couple of sites do too. Enter Bellesa, Make Love Not Porn and Lust Cinema (or anything Erica Lust).
They're out here doing the sista's work, giving us authentic sex scenes without all the nasty horror stories that make your Queen V curl inside of itself.
Thanks to these websites, sex workers only ever do something they consent to, they receive fair pay and *drum roll please*, they portray real pleasure so you don't have to sit and wonder whether you too should be having 10 big O's during a hardcore jackhammer sesh.
2. Storylines? Yes, Please
Ever since Georgia and Robbie got it on in Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging, it's been apparent that a plotline goes a LONG way.
Enter the Wattpad spiral.
We're still yet to find something as satisfying as reading a smutty fanfic at 3 a.m. on a school night, but there are a few things that have come pretty close…. Like reading a smutty fanfic at 3 a.m. on a work night.
And then, of course, some OG faves like The Love Hypothesis, anything Ana Huang, and, dare we say it, Fifty Shades of Grey. As for websites, Wattpad remains a top contributor, AO3, XConfessions (Erika Lust strikes again), and Dipsea (which is more of an audio porn vibe) bringing all the slow burn and buildup that makes the payoff even better.
3. Softcore & Sensual Vibes
As a woman, it's literally your prerogative to want to be wined and dined before any spicy business. We need a bit of buildup, a bit of ooh la la, some spicy details to obsess over later, and that's where sensual porn comes in.
Focusing on chemistry, connection, and building a story that not only makes your Queen V tingle but also your imagination run wild, these steamy, cinematic moments can be found on sites like Bellesa, Joybear and Lustery.com.
4. Lesbian & Queer Porn (Even If You're Not Queer)
Alright, lads, sit this one out. Regardless of your sexual orientation IRL, when it comes to watching porn, you may find you prefer a bit of girl-on-girl action.
Welcome to the club, queen.
Lesbian and Queer porn ticks all the boxes for three very important reasons - it focuses largely on pleasure, connection and looks quite enjoyable. At least, that's the case more often than not, and if that's your journey, sites like PinkLabel and Girlsway are offering some of the best, non-performative, female-centred queer content out there.
5. Audio Porn—Because Sometimes, Your Imagination Is the Main Event
Put your hand up if you relived a steamy session with your FWB/lover who's not your lover/actual lover, etc, more times than you'd like to admit.
*Cracks knuckles* girl, do we have a treat for you.
It's only natural to escape to your mind palace and relive the moments that created all the feels, which is where audio porn comes in handy. Imagine having a deep, sexy voice whispering sweet (and filthy) nothings right into your ear? Um, yes, please.
Dipsea and Quinn are the queens of this space, offering everything from sensual storytelling to spicy guided fantasies for those of us who are DTF…. But not like DTF.
6. Real Couples Doing Real Things
Well hellooooooo there amateur porn. You know what's hotter than ethical porn? Porn with real couples making real content. Ain't nothing better than a bit of on-screen chemistry.
Forget over-the-top theatrics and hyper-staged rendevous, on Bright Desire, Lustery, Make Love Not Porn and OnlyFans, you can see real couples doing their thang, and unlike your debit card on payday, they love to see you coming.
7. POV & Female-Focused Fun
Well, well, well, look what the female gaze dragged in. In a not-so-surprising turn of events, porn is mostly catered to the male gaze, but sometimes, female-focused, and POV takes centre stage meaning your pleasure is front and centre.
Thanks to sites like Ifeelmyself and Afterglow, you can find the type of content that has you not only taking a trip down Big O lane but also giving a 10-minute standing ovation from your bedroom.
Final Thoughts & Feelings
Queens, we're pretty good at owning our pleasure in the bedroom with our toys, but it's time to own it online, too.
Forget the likes of PornHub and other not-so-fab sites; we're all about choosing what feels good, whether that's ethical, audio, sensual, or just something that actually makes sense.
So dabble, explore, and may your next solo sesh be a 10/10 experience.
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Lillie Rohan - Lifestyle and Entertainment Journalist
With a background working for some of NZ and the UK’s most established publications such as NZ Herald, Metro.co.uk, I’m bringing my storytelling skills to Girls Get Off to share helpful info on all things relationship, sex and self pleasure, it’s a vibe! X