Jo is single, and we think it's time she meets someone great. So, we’re putting it in your hands. Listen to this episode to learn more about Jo and who she is, plus what's she's looking for in a guy. If you’ve got a single guy friend who could be Jo’s perfect match, submit him via Instagram or email us at jellylegs@girlsgetoff.com! We’ll be shortlisting candidates, and Jo will go on five recorded podcast dates—yes, real dates, on the podcast.
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Go! You're listening to the Girls Get Off podcast, an R18 podcast on all things female pleasure. Think girl talk, but real girl talk, where we chat all things masty, self-loving, sex, orgasms, and more. Nothing is off limits, which means you get all the secrets even our guests' BFFs don't know. We're on a mission to make talking about getting off as fun as actually doing it. Ready to join the Mastination? Let's get into it. Hello and welcome back to the Girls Get Off podcast. Today is our first episode of the Date My Mate series, which we are pumped for. And I'm going to give you a bit of a rundown before we dive into things because, you know, Jo's single. We think it's a time that she'd meet someone. So we're going to put it into your hands. We had a conversation about how it's always nice when you meet through friends, the apps are a bit of a bore and a chore. So why don't we leverage the Girls Get Off community? full of great people who probably know other great people and get a referral. So the plan is... I was going to say, sorry, just jumping in here. The referral thing is key because that's what I worked out that the only way I'm going to date anybody now is via referral. Like dating apps, you can talk to somebody and then you meet up with them and they're completely different to, you know, you can just be anyone you want on the dating apps. We do have, you know, somebody... that keeps reinventing themselves. Somebody we know that on the dating app and he doesn't get a date or something and reinvents himself every month as a new person. And so you just don't know what you're in for with dating apps. And so I'm so over it. So yeah, I think, well, you tried to billboard for me, didn't you? Thanks for that. But like, again, the people that DM you from that aren't kind of my type of people anyway. You know what I mean? Like. I don't know. We haven't been targeted enough. We've been to spray and pray. This is our attempt at being targeted and finding a great match for you. And if we give people instructions as we will unfold in this episode, then people will know what to look out for and who you're looking for. So we're going to talk about today, more about Jo, who she is, her values are, her top qualities, and then also what she's looking for in a partner. And then what we'll do is get all of you to have a real Good thing about those great single men in your life, send us a bio, why you think they'll be a good match, can be long or short, whatever, couple of photos, and we'll shortlist those to hopefully put together about five live date episodes. If we can get I'm sure we will once we give everyone instructions. There might be one. There might be one. There's no deciding anything. Who knows? I think this is going to be a more targeted approach than the Billboard. So even if it's less, it's going to be quality over quantity and we'll do some live podcasting dates on air. And I think also the people who come on the dates, they don't have to be freaked out about that. We don't have to put up like video content of them and we can change names and things like that as well. if they're worried about anonymity, whatever. Anonymous is fine. Great point. And we can... we can make it happen. So how are you feeling, Jo? Right. Let's start with some fun facts about you. want to hear like age, background. What have you got written down for me? Okay, cool. I've got none of that written down because I kind of know that stuff. Tick? Okay. 40. That sounds crazy. Just saying it. 40. I have a 17 year old and a seven year old, both boys at the moment. And what else about, that's like, you know, that's the basic bio stuff. I've been single seven years. think that's a key point in that I'm not just about to settle. And that's why we are, you know, diving deep into this. want a really good match. What about like, where you live? I'm just not going to- You know what I mean? Oh, Rotorua. You don't live in the anymore. Yep. No. So I live in Rotorua. in New Zealand. But at the same time, if we're talking about like dating and stuff, I'm open to long distance because I love my, I love my space. As long as you've got the money to travel because I like it, I'm sorry, at 40, I'm not going to be like, I can't afford to come and see you this weekend. You know what I mean? Like that's not a conversation I'm willing to have. Is that bad? no, you're allowed to want what you want. Yeah, sure. anyway, how about what do you, what do you like to do on the weekend? Well, that's, let's ask that in a different way. We really just dove into me, didn't we? And now I'm like, awkward. What I do in the weekend and what I would like to do in the weekend are two different things at the moment. uh what I am into and I feel like local options in Rotorua are going to be like mountain bikers and stuff. You know what I mean? And I've actually, a good friend of mine took me riding about 10 years ago down on the shuttles in Rotorua and he's a really good mountain biker and I just tried to keep up, like he went down like completely, I'd never done it before and I closed my eyes and just somehow got to the bottom and I've never gone again since. So I'm like, I'm not the, you know, if you're dreaming of this mountain biking chick in Rotorua, it is not me. Thanks, Jeff. Ha ha ha ha. Scarred for life. It totally scared me. Yeah. But it's funny the amount of friends he brings home that are like, broken after riding with Jeff. don't feel as bad. Anyway, I love like animals and nature. That's so wholesome. Isn't it? So wholesome. You are really wholesome. I am wholesome. I'm wholesome. But you do like a good night out every now and then. There's blowout Joe. Hey, like, It's uh like some steam off. Yeah. I'm an extroverted introvert. Um, I don't know. I've got like, I'm like 80 % Maybe sometimes 90 % introvert. Nah, let's go with 80 % introvert, 20 % extrovert. And it just gets to a stage, right? Where I'm just like, I need a blowout. Like the blowout life is for me. Yeah. I'm not like a- So it's not going to be a good match for someone who wants to go to the pub every weekend, for example. Yeah. Yeah. Like I'm not- into every weekend partying, but I am into a good party on occasion. Like I love there to be an occasion, right? Like, yeah. It has, there has to be a purpose to it for me. then trip to Auckland, birthday, races, events, something fun like that. Yeah. And then like the second I have one drink in me, it's like party Joe comes out. Yeah. And you're not afraid to stay out late either. You're not someone who's just going to go home at 10 o'clock. You'll get in there and party. Yeah, much to my feet's disappointment. yeah, so pretty wholesome day to day. I am such a foodie, like my happy place is in the kitchen. Sourdough master. And yeah, yeah, we love a bit of baking bread. And creative, if I had time, like when my dream life, when I'm not working so much. is like building my dream house with a big art room in it and just like away from people. Lots of trees around, lots of nature with a big art room in it, a veggie garden, animals. That's my dream life. So, oh, and there has to be water somewhere because I love being on the water. You know, some people, sorry, some people are beach people. I'm like boat on the water people. Like I'm not necessarily like just, know, like sand kind of gets annoying in places, but like the relaxation of person. I'm a huge boat person. Yeah. It's like. I'm just, I step on a boat and I think my whole face changes cause it's just like happy place, you know? Like there's something about it. Yeah. I actually think this is going to be such a good podcast because people only know, they only see the forced extraversion when you have to do content, you know? Like your last business, you didn't even appear on the story. think you maybe got on stories three times in what, two years? So this has been like a huge jump in this. actually not reflective of your day to day. this is perfect. This is so true. Cause somebody even like was in the DMs yesterday. Hey, and they're like, this guy, he's a massive extrovert. Like you'll love him. And people just assume, Hey, that I'm a big extrovert, but that's all Viv. uh But sometimes opposites attract in that sense. know what I mean? Well, this is the thing. You know, like we're great friends. are like polar opposites when it comes to like this sort of stuff, you know, like being around people and like gives you energy and you thrive off it. Whereas it like drains me and I, you know, if we have an event on or something, it seriously takes me like three days to recover. yeah, but like we get along so great. I absolutely loved that about you, you know, cause it, so a hundred percent I'm not. To be honest, next event would be. Yeah. And like, yeah, but you don't need it. Yeah. Partner could be either or. Okay. Let's get into your, in terms of what you say. sorry. Yeah. On that, with an extrovert as well, like, cause I love my own space. That's perfect if they're off doing their own thing. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. You know, for me, that isn't like a, feel like that's a, that's a no-go for some people. Hey, cause they like want their partner. there all the time, this is not me. you're like, yeah. Agreed. Tell me more about what you value most in life. In terms of your personal values that you need someone to align on. For example, one of my personal values is that to be surrounded by great people, that's a real strong for me. And so when I meet someone who doesn't have that many... relationships in their life or that many connections, that's just not something I can really relate to or like, yeah, that's not the right vibe for me. Yeah. But what are some of the things that would really... love that. I'm definitely a quality over quantity when it comes to my circle, right? I keep it, I'm somebody that keeps it small. Values, in my core, I have always wanted to be a family person. You know, like always family first, like. You're a very family person. Love a big family and stuff like that. Like I think a key point of this was when I had Jake, um, when I was 22, like the first thing I went out and bought when I found out I was pregnant was the biggest dining table I could find, which was like a 10 seater or something at the time. And cause that's all I was just like, Oh, my dreams coming true. I'm going to have like this massive big family Christmas someday. Anyway, I've got a really small family. uh don't, you know, my life hasn't worked out that I have this such, that's in it. Exactly. The core of me, that's what I want. So I definitely want somebody that is on board with that family thing. Yeah. Someone who wouldn't be great with your kids just wouldn't be an option. Not even an option. But in the same breath, if they had their own kids, then that's probably, would that be fine to you? Own kids, totally fine to me. If anything, kind of better, because I don't think you really know what it's like to have kids. I don't know. You can't know what it's like to have kids if you don't have kids. That's totally right. Yeah. And so just, you know, I don't know, some people like their whole identity is about being a mum and that's not me either. But at the same time, it doesn't mean that I'm a mum any less. You know what I mean? So yeah, it's obviously not going to work if somebody's not going to be happily around my kids, just as is, you know, you're going to have to fit into my family life as I'm going to have to fit into somebody else's, you know what I mean? So. Having uh kids, fine, probably a plus, but not necessarily. My biggest thing though is there is no way I'm pushing another baby out in this lifetime. it's What if you just C-section? It's not on my cards. No, I'm not going through the whole like new- I'm just not having any more kids. And like I would happily give a hundred- kids that needed a home and like adopt or foster or anything like that. I'm so open to all of that stuff. Like there is nothing. Yeah. Hopefully by that stage, I will be able to afford a nanny's help to help with all of that tough part of it. But I'm done with having kids, my son. um And so that's one of my not negotiables. So I think that needs to be really clear because I wouldn't want to be the reason for somebody that does want kids themselves to not have their kids, you know? And I don't want that to come up in five years time and be like a thing, well, I wanted kids, you know? It's like, yeah. I think that has to be like a clear cut. Yeah. And I think also that's why. I want someone around my age not going for like the 20 something year old. Do I look so young that she has a track record of attracting the younger men? That's so funny. yeah, so, you know, cause I think, I think after 35, you kind of have either had kids or know whether you're okay without kids or not. You know what I mean? I think up until like 36, I don't know, you're still. You still could change your mind. And anything else in terms of things that you really value, like I agree that the family one is super strong for you. Anything else that comes through is really strong. think does honesty come under it? this where we talk about like, you know, values? Because I'm just like actual genuinely honest, kind person. Well, people, they're the only people in my life, you know? Yeah. If you don't tick that box, you're not in my life anyway. Yeah. Give me an example. Give me an example of like, I mean, everyone knows what honest and kind is, but if there was a guy in your life with like honesty and kindness, what would that look like? That's a question. That's a really good question because kindness for me isn't like buying me stuff or texting me good morning because that'll fuck. me off. Oh, that was one of my red flags, wasn't it? That's so funny. Somebody like when you first meet, hey, different if you're like in a relationship and you know, like really love each other and you just like honestly like miss somebody that you're not there and you're like, good morning. Totally different to like talking to somebody off a dating app or something and like, or in the first couple of weeks of dating and every morning they're like, good morning. Yeah, but much before you've committed. Yeah. But do know what, actually? Now I know exactly what kindness and honesty and stuff means. Kindness for me is treating other, nothing to do with me. you know what I mean? But I need to see them treating others nicely. I need to, you know, that's what makes a good human to me. Like treating everybody kind, not just me. So it isn't like, yeah. And again, honest, like just don't fucking lie. There's no point. Yeah, I like that. That's actually, I'm glad we talked about that because that is a huge thing. Yeah, you say kindness, but people have different examples in their head and I think that's really important because some people, mean, the rude to white stuff is always the classic example. That's often a turn off for people, but I think kindness in all areas doesn't mean like buying you flowers or something. just, you just genuinely. kindness seeping out of them and all facets of your life. Yeah. Just, you know, thinking about how other people feel with their actions and, know, just that core kind of core kindness, not fake, make yourself look good kindness. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like the good little, and often you said it was like giving without the intention of trying to receive or get recognition or anything like that. Yeah. That's That's quite genuine. What about, what would you say your love languages are? And what love languages do you like to receive? What? like prep me with these questions first. I'm just thinking about them now. Okay. You're doing good. My love. What are the love languages? Can we just go through them? You've got five languages. Ex of service, physical touch, gifts, quality time, and words of affirmation. Not words of affirmation. Like honestly, and I can't be with somebody who's love language is words of affirmation. Like that's just not me. I would just get fucked off having to tell somebody how good they are. Like honestly, I'm sorry. You need to be like a level of confidence in yourself. I think words of affirmation can be like, thanks for taking the rubbish out. It doesn't have to be like, you look so good today. You look so good today. You look so good today. Yeah. But that's just, that's just a good human that says thanks for taking the rubbish out. I'm sorry, you should just do that anyway. Words What do you like to receive? How do you like to receive love? Touch. Yep. Physical touch. And quality time in... Limits. Right. Like not, you know, but quality time. But like when you compare it to say a gift, if you're hanging out for Valentine's day, you just want to like hang out together and spend time together versus like getting chocolates. Yeah. you know, one of those... Cabins in nature appeals to me way more. know what I mean? Like, yeah, traveling, doing stuff together, but not necessarily living in each other's pockets. Yeah. Nice. Okay. what about how do you... a real deep dive into me, aren't they? I love it. you're going to... Basically you're going into the forest to have sex. I like it. What are you going... How are you going to give love? How do you show someone that you appreciate them? Well, naturally I'm just a touchy person, so they're going to get... So I feel like that would be hard for me to stop anyway. So if you don't like being touched, you're not my person. And I'm somebody that likes to make people happy, I guess, you know what I mean? So that's up to what their love language is. You know what I mean? Like I would enjoy doing something that they're actually going to like. Like you, like, I don't know, would you say it's acts of service? Like are you baking someone bread or are you buying them a gift? You know what I mean? Oh yes. Okay. No, I'm acts of service. love, yeah, no, I'm not like a buyer of gifts type of thing. I'm a maker of bread gifts. Yeah. I think you'd probably, think, yeah, maybe you'd be more acts of service. Like whereas I've, yeah, whereas I've got a friend who she'll come and stay with me and like buy me new mugs and stuff. She's definitely a gift giving friend, you know? So it's like, there are differently subtle differences. Yeah, but I also like, you know, being aware of what your partner's love languages are. You know what I mean? Like I, I think people should be aware that not everyone's are the same and you need to kind of adapt. Yes. 100%. Okay, cool. Now let's flip it for a second. Like, do we feel like we've painted the picture enough? I'm trying to think about what else people would want to know about you. I feel like we've painted a picture of like... what you're about. obviously know what you do for work and then otherwise they know what you do and you spend time. Oh, sorry. Sorry, that just like glitched on me. One thing I think we should cover as well. I feel like I'm giving warnings of like what I'm like, cause it's better, but I don't come with a filter of like that's something you should, that's a comment you should hold inside. You know what I mean? Like I'm very straight up, I think. Yeah, you're going to get honesty basically. So if you're precious, I don't do precious, like it gives me the ick, like people that are like real precious. Just- Well on that note, what else, what other, what else, like how would people describe your personality? You, how, how would you describe my personality Viv? There we go. Well, think, well, to be fair, think the main thing, obviously hard working, but I think the main thing is the like family aspect that really sticks out to me is being your, like that's just where you're, that is so your number one value. You know what I mean? But personality wise, me and you like to go party sometimes, stay at home sometimes. I feel like that's pretty bang on. You're really kind. You're very creative. I funny? Yeah. And you like doing things even though you say that you're introverted, you're actually very much a guest person and you will go and try stuff like the mountain biking. You know what I mean? Like you're not gonna, you're not someone who's going to be like, nah, I'm not going to go and do that. But you're very much up for anything. You literally went to a dick riding workshop. You know what I mean? Like it's not like you all forced yourself, even though you don't like to be on stories, you forced yourself to do it and still continue to. So you're very much like in it for the long haul and very much a yes person, I think. All right. Thanks Viv. But I you do like boats more than you, you don't spend enough time on boats and you should spend more on them. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. Yeah, that's definitely missing from your life. Boats are in my future, travel is in my future. Yeah. Yeah. Agreed. Okay. Let's flip the switch then and talk to us about the qualities that you're looking for in a partner and then we can move on to the deal breakers. Okay. Let me bring out my chat GPT help. You made chat GPT laugh today. mean yesterday. Yesterday I did because I was like, I don't want to date a dick. What qualities do I need to look out for? yeah, anyway, now chat GBT is manifesting no dicks in my future. So hopefully that's good sign. Okay. Well, one thing that didn't come up on this that is important to me though, is somebody that's authentic. You have to an example again, cause not everyone, I might have a different definition of authentic to you. Yeah, true. Okay. I like somebody. with their own values. I've seen time and time again, people that just get like, I don't know, I like somebody to have their own values and their own thing and not chop and change who they are. And this is, this is one of these things that like, we know I've been in some fucked up relationships, but I'm like, maybe this isn't something that everybody is. Maybe that was just my experience. And I'm like, I'm so just like. I so want somebody that has like strong, maybe it's like strong values. don't know. What am I trying to say? In terms of the per- do you mean if a person is acting one way one week and then acting another way one week? Or do you mean if they're like, if they're, they say their top value is family, but they actually, I don't know, don't see their kids very often or something. You know, like genuine and authentic. Just not saying something and doing something else or- I don't know. Actions lining up with their words. Maybe. Yeah. think, um, yeah, I did date somebody that every time he read a new book, again, they would reinvent themselves as a new person. And I'm like, you know, I just, yeah, that's, that's too much effort. a very lost end of it. He's still working. He's still figuring that out, I think. Yeah. That's our friend that does reinvent himself on the dating apps now. So in terms of, so we've got authenticity then. the words, actions, they're not going to reinvent themselves all the time. They know who they are. Yes, that's there. They know who they are and they're comfortable who they are and they like who they are. That's a good way Maybe this is why I'm single. Do I have way too many? No, this is great. This is actually great to look it out. Okay. What are the other qualities you're looking for then? Well, okay. It's going to be the generic. like emotional maturity, right? Like, I feel like it's pretty important. The kindness, the empathy, integrity and honesty. actually having gone through this, think there needs to be little examples. So emotional maturity, for example, doesn't just shut off to, you know, like, I guess is what's a good, what's a good explanation of it? Well, emotional maturity could either be Are they still laughing at fart jokes or not? are they, you're talking about when you're having a conversation, whether they're going to actually work through something or if they're going to get angry about it or they don't know how to control their emotions. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, I'm talking about the second one because I'm immature. That's one thing about me is I still laugh at fart jokes. Yeah. Nice. Okay. So more related to the... As you're working on the relationship, they're able to be better and it's a little bit different, but they're working with you. Communication? well, know, like communication at an adult level, not like, don't do, think, oh, do you know what explains me really well is I haven't exactly had an easy life, have I? So I don't sweat the small stuff. Or like, you know, like communicating and yeah, I couldn't deal with somebody that wasn't kind of on that same level of emotional maturity. think, you know, I don't know that didn't explain it very well, but. Like you just need someone who's, you're able to like talk with if there's any issues. Yeah. Yeah. And they're not going to throw their toys. Yeah. It's like just have a. conversation. Nice. Or not a yeller. Like, you know how some people yell? Yeah. My neighbors down there, like I hear them yelling and I'm like, I don't do yelling. Yeah. Unless that's your communication style, that is not Jo's. Yes. Yes. And then we've gone through the kindness as well. That's another top quality. there any other qualities you had in mind? Well, I asked Chachi to summarise that. So they were the three top ones. Are there any more that I should have Viv? I don't trust myself. you've got authenticity, so they know who they are. And then you've got the kindness, which we spoke about, you know, that's not just related to you, but all the people around them. And then you've got the emotional maturity, which is being able to talk about stuff, not yelling at each other and so on. that was the top three, wasn't it? And honesty. Yeah. But again, that just goes without saying, please. Okay, and how about you like blows my mind that these things don't go without saying like, who has the time in life to deal with like lies and shit? Yep. What about deal breakers? Obviously if they want more kids, that's not on the cards. Yeah. Yeah. Totally. Um, and basically the opposite of what I want them to have, right? So if, yeah, if they're not good, I don't know. I can spot a flag from a mile away now. So if you try and trick me, I'm going to like. I think, well, I think things like the, if they want to have, yeah, if they want to have more kids, that's obviously a deal breaker. That's not like something you can work on. And I mean, long distance is not a deal breaker for you. Location could be a deal breaker for others. Again, as long as, you know, this is a big one actually, financial security. So. I say that in I never want to be a sugar mama. Not that I'm like rich or anything like that, you know, but I never want to. No, you're not rich enough to be a sugar mama. That's the problem. For the record, GDOS does not pay us enough to be a sugar mama for anyone. So that is absolutely a deal breaker. We've got a business to build here. We can't have any, we can't have dependents like their Jeepers. No, exactly. But yeah, you know, even in, even in 10 years time. You just want to be able to go on a holiday or something and somebody pay for themselves. Well, no, okay. Not if, again, I'm not like a separate money person, but so in 10 years time, you know what I mean? Anyway, that just like kind of escalated, but. No, I think that's really valid because you don't want to have to feel then like you're, you are constantly paying for shit for somebody or you're missing out on opportunities like different trips because they can't afford it or. they don't also want to pay for their kids to go or something like that. Yeah. just, yeah, I'm just kind of, that's not the life I want to create for myself. so, yeah, that's a, that's a bit of a deal breaker. So financial security is a big one. Excellent. Any other deal breakers? mean, if they're just generally not a great person, but that's why we're getting the referrals from people. we're going to get the good ones. Yeah. 100%. Please don't refer any dicks. think, gosh, people are really getting like naked me today, aren't they? Getting real. Anyway, I think a big thing is I rely on myself a lot and I don't, you know, so in a partner, it would be nice. think poor Viv is about the only person and my friends, they're about the only person that I will let help me out or anything like that. Oh no, you don't even ask. I've told you this before, Jo, you won't even ask me for help. I won't even ask our staff that we pay. know, I know. When Jo moved Are you sure you're okay doing this? can do it. Yeah, when Jo moved close to her friend, Sarah, I said, oh, thank God. I'm like, far out, she's the only person that you'll actually ask for help with the kids or stuff like that. I think that- Yeah, yeah. So anyway, some, I think that's one thing that would be nice in my life is somebody that, you know, I could rely on without like- necessarily asking a burden. know what I mean? Like I'm just, yeah. And I think that's a, that's probably a big trait of mine that somebody should be aware of, guess, cause I'm not, I'll kind of give, give, give until we, and not like us for anything. Yeah. No, that's great. And what about your, any other like red or green flags that you often look out for? This is funny. I wish we had a list. Start with the green flags. What are green flags that you look out for if you're going on a date with someone? Yeah, you told me that I can only look for the green flags now. A green flag is you don't have a girlfriend. Yes, great green flag. Single. Number one. Yeah, that should have been on my not negotiables, right? You have to be single. What's another green flag? Continue going on a date with someone. What are some things that they could do that would make you go, these are ticking my boxes. Oh yeah. Nice. I don't know. I don't even think I've got a type. Okay. know, like I I honestly just would like somebody to be nice. And also safety is often a word that you bring up sometimes as someone who makes you feel safe. Yeah. Yes. I don't think we should leave that one out. No, a hundred percent. That is a definitely a non-negotiable. And they just to just touch on that safe in terms of Physically, like they could beat someone up for you. Safe in terms of like if I am texting someone and then I feel like I'm getting into my like anxious attachment style, that doesn't make me feel safe. That's my version of like not feeling safe because I don't feel like I can just say what I want, et cetera. Or do you mean safe in terms of yeah, yeah, physically or mentally or what does that look like for you? I think, I think safe is then just the freedom to be yourself. And know that that's okay. you know, like you're safe to be yourself, physically safe, a hundred percent. Um, safe in that physically safe in that you're safe with the person. um, and also, yeah, wonder if I'll sleep better at night. That'd be nice. Hey. Yeah. 100%. Yeah. Go into Someone that's got your back. Someone who's got you back. like that. Yeah. That's a good way to put it. Yeah. Reliable. Okay. flags. What are you on a date with someone? What are sending alarm bells? Eating with their mouth open. Bye. Okay. Yeah. I don't do that. Yep. I, do you know what? I have not gone on a date where I haven't paid and not that that's a bad thing. How have you managed to do that? Well, I always offered a split and then they want to do their manly thing and I'm like, you do you boo. I don't really care, but whatever do whatever makes you feel good. But you've always, how do you end up paying? Well, because I don't do the split bill thing. And then I'll always just be like, I'll get it. because I'm just an I'll get it person and like hoping deep inside that they're going to be like, no way and stop me. But no one stops me. then. Yeah, that'd be stop me from paying. Well, hey, the good thing about this one is that you don't have to do that because it's going to be a podcast date. So you're going to save yourself a bit of money doing it over the podcast. I was thinking of a dinner date, but okay. Yeah, I don't know. I've had some, there's been some red flags that are funny over the years, hey, but yeah, I can't think of them now off the top of my head. Hey, one thing I think we haven't talked about, you mentioned the age, you'd like someone your own age. I guess that's probably enough, but like, please don't, you don't want to be matched up with people in their twenties, do you? No, I think 35 to 50 would be a good age range. Yeah, nice. Okay, cool. think that's what I have my settings on. Nice. I think ideally 35 to 45, if we're going for ideals. Ideals. We can be flexible given the right man. Yeah. Yes. Is there anything you feel like we haven't covered in this little bio? Anything you feel like you haven't said or that you want people to know? No, I don't think so. think I just like feel very naked and everyone's going to know everything about me. No, this was great. This was a great explanation. I love it. And so just to reiterate, if you have listened to this podcast, think, Oh, actually, I've actually got a mate who I think would be perfect for Joe. They'd be great together. Then you, all you need to do is you can just DM us on Instagram. That's probably going to be the easiest way. Send us a little blurb. Doesn't have to be complex and then send us a couple of photos and we will, we'll take it from there. Perfect. We might have to get you to. intro us to the person, but we can dive into that later. then hopefully we can get some dates together happening on the podcast. I'll be on there as well. It's going to be a third three-way date asking some questions so we can get it. Then we can get an even, you know, it'll be like an even playing field for all of them. And we'll take it from there. questions for everyone. Same questions. Yeah, great. I feel like this is so raw, but like even our audience, hey, they're like, they get, they get Gigi Ojo. whenever they see me and then this is so It's going to be good. It's going to be revealing, but also perfect because people don't know the side of you. So this is going to be great. All right. So you know all about Joe now, how exciting. So keep thinking, think a little bit harder and then send through some options and we will create some finalists. Perfect. Yay. Thanks guys. Have a great week. Thanks for listening to another episode of the Girls Get Off podcast. you want to hear more from us you can check us out on Instagram at Girls Get Off, our Facebook group Girls Get Off Uncensored or for any of our products GirlsGetOff.com and our personal Instagrams are linked in the show notes.