It doesn't vibrate, it doesn't suck, and it certainly doesn't get inserted, but Girls Get Off's new product may just be the toy you've been searching for.
Get ready to start taking screenshots, queen. You've already been acquainted with Bumpy Cuddles; now it's time to learn how to use her.
Of course, you could start whipping, flipping and double dipping until you find a position that makes your toes curl, and all the stars in the universe fill your mind, but if you're a Type A personality, the fun is all in the instruction manual, and if you're a Type B, the fun is imagining all the spontaneous scenarios you can try them out in.
So grab your pillow, grab your boo thang and let's get down n dirty. Here is everything you need to know about sex pillows:
What Is a Sex Pillow and Why Should You Use One?
Some may know it as a position pillow, position cushion, or Bumpy Cuddles. Regardless of the name, most of the time, they have the same specs. A sex pillow is a pillow made from high-density foam that holds its shape and is designed to make sex more comfortable and, in most cases, more pleasurable. It is also machine washable, durable, and extra firm.
Why should you use one over a regular pillow? Thanks to the firmer design, a sex pillow's benefit is it won't lose its shape or flatten while you're using it, and in most cases (particularly for GGO's take on the toy), it is water resistant so that you can let the punani tsunami and all the other sex juices flow without concern of damage, plus, isn't it just more hygienic to keep all the play on one pillow?
As well as tech specifics, sex pillows are great for people with mobility concerns, aches and pains as they offer more support and comfort.
How to Use a Sex Pillow for Maximum Comfort
Sex pillows offer ergonomic support during your intimate moments, meaning they are not only more enjoyable for everyone involved but so comfortable that the spicy time won't be the only thing you catch yourself dreaming about.
Available in multiple different shapes, sex pillows can offer you deeper angles, reduce strain and give you and your partner the perfect opportunity to try new positions.
Top Positions to Try with a Sex Pillow
The real reason you clicked into this article is finally here, queens; grab your lover, grab your pillow and get into one of (or all of) these positions.
This one is for the queens who love effortless intimacy. Place the high end of Bumpy Cuddles near the edge of the bed. Lay tummy first on the pillow so your hips are lifted slightly and your legs hang off the bed's end. Have your partner stand between your legs, and when comfortable, insert their penis or dildo into your Queen V.
This position can also be done with your legs on the bed; simply move the pillow further up the bed. If you want more height, place another pillow under Bumpy Cuddles.
Position Bumpy Cuddles in the middle of the bed, with the higher end facing the edge of the bed. Laying on your back with your booty resting on the higher end of Bumpy Cuddles, allow the pillow to elevate your hips so it feels like you're doing a bridge roll (without the burn).
Have your partner position themself between your legs. When comfortable, have them insert their penis or dildo into your Queen V and enjoy your bumpy cuddles.
Find a comfy spot on your bed, floor or wherever else you love a spicy rendezvous and laying on your back, place the high end of Bumpy Cuddles under your hips. Spread your legs and allow your lover to perform oral sex on you (with or without toys).
It may not sound like much of a change, but according to Cosmopolitan writer Madeleine Howard, the new angle meant her partner 'could hit all the spots (aka all along my labia and my clitoris) way, way more easily. It was pretty much *chef's kiss* magical.'
Position Bumpy Cuddles near the end of the bed, with the higher end facing the edge of the bed. Laying on your back with your booty resting on the higher end of Bumpy Cuddles, lift your legs up to the sky.
Have your partner stand between your legs at the edge of the bed. When comfortable, have them insert their penis or dildo into your Queen V and let the fun begin.
Whether you're riding reverse or giving your boo thang a perfect view of the girls, Bumpy Cuddles is ride-friendly and will have those angles feeling extra good. Simply place the pillow in the middle of the bed and have your partner lay on their back with their booty resting on the higher side of Bumpy Cuddles.
Facing them (or away from them), place your legs on either side of their hips and slowly lower yourself down. Gently insert their penis or dildo into your Queen V and ride them, cowgirl.
Benefits of Using a Sex Pillow for Couples
According to Sexologist Jess O'Reilly, a sex pillow is a great intimacy tool for couples as it offers 'more options for play, especially in terms of positions and angles'.
Speaking to Women's Health, she highlighted how better angles can be achieved during intimacy and add deeper penetration, among other things.
'You might discover new ways to access your lover's hottest spots during oral simply by propping their hips up on a sex pillow', she says. 'Or you might find that the angle of doggy style is more comfortable for longer periods when you have the support of a sex pillow.'
Choosing the Right Sex Pillow for Your Needs
As there are many different shapes and sizes of sex pillows, we’ve made things as sweet n simple as possible by putting together this handy dandy pros and cons list.
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PILLOW |
Bumpy Cuddles |
Inflatable |
Wedge |
Roller |
Normal Pillow |
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Beginner Friendly |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
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Easy to Store |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
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Good for Reclining Positions |
✓ |
✓ |
✓ |
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Good for Joint & Back Support |
✓ |
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Available in Waterproof/Washable Materials |
✓ |
✓ |
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Adjustable Firmness |
✓ |
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Supports Deep Penetration |
✓ |
✓ |
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Supports Advanced Positions |
✓ |
When shopping for your supportive new bedroom bestie, it’s also worth considering where you will store it when purchasing your sex pillow. If you don't have a lot of room, an inflatable one can be a good option as you can blow it up and take it down as you please, or you could try a small wedge or roller that hides in plain sight, thanks to it's resemblance to an exercise or pilates block.
Work smarter, not harder queens.
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THIS ARTICLE WAS WRITTEN BY…..
Hiiii queens!! I’m Lillie Rohan, a Lifestyle and Entertainment journalist. I currently write for established publications such as NZ Herald, Metro.co.uk, The Mirror & of course, Girls Get Off. Along with all things pop culture, I love bringing you helpful info on all things relationship, sex and self pleasure, it’s a vibe! x