Alright, listen here, people! Today we're going to talk about common sexual misconceptions. Yes, you heard well—those big lies and myths that leave us feeling like we are hovering through the bedroom in a wonderland.
The first thing I want to talk about is how they’ve taken over society. Everywhere you turn, there’s some crazy story about what goes on between the sheets. From old wives’ tales to locker room whispers, it’s as if we are living in a world where every other person thinks he or she is an authority on sex. Spoiler alert: they’re not.
Why do it? But wait, lemme tell ya, this is important for accurate sexual education and awareness. We can’t be doing false gods everywhere concerning sex education. People need to know what they should be doing when their pants are down without any camouflage. So strap yourselves, because we’re going to set the record straighter than a laser beam.
Myth #1: "You Can't Get Pregnant on Your Period"
“You Can’t Get Pregnant on Your Period” was one of those classics. It’s kind of like that Loch Ness Monster of sex myths you think has been debunked only for it to rear its head again next week.
Well, let’s just see what happens when you break it down into plain language. For example, your menstrual cycle is like being on a rollercoaster ride with hormones and things changing in your body all the time! When you have your period, it means that your uterus didn’t hear about babies not happening this month so it sheds off all its lining. Here comes the catch, though: sperm have the ability to stay within your body for days, acting like they are chilling on vacation at the beach.
Now onto some wrong perceptions here. Some people feel that there’s no way they could get pregnant while Aunt Flo is visiting but surprise! Sperm can hang around, waiting for an invitation. During your period, if you are losing blood like a stuck pig, the last romp might have left behind a few swimmers that can still hit a home run.
Let’s dispel this fallacy once and for all. You could get pregnant while on your period. It is almost as absurd as believing that being in a grocery store will keep you safe from zombies. Be vigilant, be informed, and wear protection unless you are ready to start a family, for heaven's sake.
Myth #2: "Pulling Out is an Effective Method of Birth Control"
“Pulling Out is an Effective Method of Birth Control" is on fire! Oh sh*t, uh, where do we even begin with this one? It’s similar to stopping a train using a piece of feather. Most times, it won’t work and therefore you’ll end up flat like a pancake.
Now let’s talk about the pulling-out method realistically. Yes, it has its own name but when it comes to effectiveness, politicians’ promises are better. You see, sometimes pre-cum contains sperm; maybe just one little peek through the door at the pool party. And if you’re not some kind of superhuman who has mastered his body, accidents occur faster than OOPS!!!
Now, let's talk about the dangers of relying only on pull out. Imagine this: playing Russian roulette with your fertility. One move in the wrong direction and boom—you are a parent to be or even worse, an STI victim. Besides, you will never be sure whether you escaped trouble by whisker every time you get down and dirty.
Let’s drop some knowledge on safer contraceptive options. Starting from condoms to birth control pills, there is a whole battery of them. To depict it all clearly, it’s like opting for a chainsaw or butter knife to bring down a tree. When you can ensure peace of mind and protection, why should you settle for anything less? So go ahead and strap yourself on, wrap it up or just pop that pill because, in the future, you will thank yourself.
Myth #3: “Sexual Performance Depends Upon Size”
The one thing that makes many men sweat more than during heat waves in deserts is “Sexual Performance Depends Upon Size.” Before turning this into a self-doubt monster, I would like to blow this bubble off.
So what are these things that people say? It looks like society has an obsession with yardsticks but let me tell that size doesn’t matter at all. Yes, it is similar to buying a luxurious car but if you don’t know how to drive, then most likely you will end up in the ditch. Women do not want such situations to happen, believe me.
But enough about that. Let’s now talk about what really matters when two people meet between sheets. Communication is everything—an intimate connection as well as an amazing technique. It is like making soufflé without flour and eggs, which happens when the perfect recipe is ruined. The real MVPs of sexual performance are being able to honestly communicate about what turns each other on, connecting more deeply together, and knowing your way around the bedroom.
It’s time we put on positive body images and debunked the myth once and for all. It doesn’t matter if you have a cucumber or baby carrot in your pants; it’s all good. Embrace it; work it like you’re on a runway somewhere. Confidence equals sexiness; nothing screams “I’m a catch” more than owning your body and knowing how to use it in bed. Thus, let us drink diversity and forget about measurements forever.
Myth #4: “Women Don’t Enjoy Sex As Much As Men”
Get ready to meet your match with this one: Women Don’t Enjoy Sex As Much As Men. Oh boy, where do we even start with this one? It is like saying pizza is only for guys. Really, people, news flash: everyone loves pizza regardless of gender.
We will begin by challenging these out-of-date stereotypes. It is as though we live in an era where men come from Mars while women come from Venus, according to society’s opinion; this has got to stop. But wait, last time I checked, we are all living on planet Earth, where pleasure knows no gender boundaries.
Now let’s explore the world of female sexual experiences from diverse perspectives. Every woman has her own drum beat, so much so that it becomes more like a buffet out there. Some like it hot, others mild, while others prefer both worlds. In short, life without spices is boring and so pleasure comes in many shapes and sizes.
The time has arrived to open up about joy and fulfilment. It’s like telling your best friend about the show you liked on Netflix—open, sincere, and maybe somewhat indecent. If couples communicate what rocks their world in bed, they usually remain happy forever. Therefore, let us leave behind this mentality of women as mere passengers and make them enjoy themselves just like it is New Year’s Eve. Congrats on equal opportunity orgasms!
Myth #5: “Sexual Health Issues Only Happen to Promiscuous Individuals”
Is it a myth or is it true that sexual health issues only happen to promiscuous people? Let’s pull down this wall of stigma and talk sex for a minute.
Let’s talk about the stigma surrounding sexual health and promiscuity. It feels like society has a double standard where it is okay for dudes to be players but girls are called expired milk. Nevertheless, sexual health issues don’t discriminate based on how many notches you’ve got on your bedpost.
Let’s now consider why regular testing and safe practices are necessary, even if you haven’t had sex with many people. It’s just like going to see your dentist—you wouldn’t miss your yearly checkup simply because you brushed your teeth once, right? No matter if you’re a serial monogamist or single, getting tested and practicing safe sex is the right thing to do.
It is time to embrace an approach free from judgement towards sexual health and well-being. Like creating some kind of sanctuary where no questions are asked and everybody can truly express themselves. Your health matters whether you have had one partner or one hundred, and nobody should feel guilty about taking care of themselves. So let’s throw away judgements and welcome a world where sexual health is celebrated rather than stigmatised.
And there we go, the grand finale: our journey through myths about sex comes to an end today; we break them all! We dealt with those annoying fallacies like professionals and left them behind us forever.
Let me take you down memory lane briefly as I summarise what we have learned so far. From debunking the myth that you cannot become pregnant during your period to dispelling the notion that bigger means better in bed, we destroyed those myths like glass ceilings. If it ain’t real, then what else should be said?
So, go out there and debunk the myths like the heroes you are. Let’s create a world where everyone can appreciate each other’s sexual health and well-being, where judgement is left outside and understanding and respect win. Together, we can make it.
THIS ARTICLE WAS WRITTEN BY…..
Hiiii queens!! I’m Lillie Rohan, a Lifestyle and Entertainment journalist. I currently write for established publications such as NZ Herald, Metro.co.uk, The Mirror & of course, Girls Get Off. Along with all things pop culture, I love bringing you helpful info on all things relationship, sex and self pleasure, it’s a vibe! x