She is beauty, she is grace, she is introducing her partner to her toys tonight and there is just one question on their lips; Can I use a clitoral vibrator with my partner?
With all the limbs and the positions and the roaming hands, it can be a tough one to figure out. Missionary is off the cards, right? Doggy? Feels a little difficult with all the bouncing. Spread eagle, maybe?
We get it girl, but before you rush out to buy a copy of the Kama Sutra, sit with us. Girls Get Off were born to understand this vision and we’ve got the best positions you, your partner and clitoral vibe - like Mini, can dabble in.
GGO’s top 5 sex positions for using a clitoral vibrator with your partner:
1. Double-O doggy
If you or your partner’s favourite position is doggy, get ready to turn it into a double-O experience queen.
To make this position work with your boo thang and your vibrator, simply get positioned on your hands and knees, while your partner places themself between your legs, and inserts their penis or dildo into your vagina.
When the time is right (and you’ll know when), take your vibrator in one of your hands and hold it to your clitoris while your partner continues thrusting. The added stimulation will result in all sorts of fun sensations.
2. Bathroom banger
This move will take you from ‘i don’t need a shower’ to ‘Not even the purest water could cleanse me’, so it just makes sense it takes place in the steamiest room in the house.
With your back to your partner, place both of your hands on the bathroom vanity. Then spread your legs and place one on the side of the bath or on a small stool, as your partner positions themself between your legs and inserts their penis or dildo into your vagina.
When you're ready, pick up your vibe with one hand and hold it against your clitoris, changing between the vibration modes to further increase those sensations.
3.Extra Sensitive Spoon
Want to get the most out of your spicy session by doing the least amount of work possible? Or maybe you’re just feeling super cuddly. Say no more, we’ve never felt more seen.
To get into position, simply lie down on your side with your back facing your partner and have them come in behind you and slip their body in closely to yours. Then, have them insert their penis or dildo into your vagina or anus, and let them take control as they hold the vibrator against your Queen V.
Don’t be afraid to give guidance if they are in charge of the vibe, like pressure, position, and of course, praise, if they are an absolute natural.
4. The Pretzel
Tastier than the salty treat, this position is also known as the lotus and is made even better with the help of your bedroom bestie.
To get into position, sit on your booty with your legs bent up as you face your partner. Have them do the same. Then, place your legs over your partner’s and wrap your arms around their neck as they insert their penis or dildo into your vagina.
When you’re ready to level up, take your vibrator in one hand and place it on your clitoris as your partner continues to thrust into you. Did someone say ready, set, O?
5. Lap it up
Sometimes the best saucy session is the one where it’s mouth and finger-orientated. If that sounds like your journey, Lap it up will be too.
To get into position, lay on your back with your legs hanging off the end of the bed and your feet firmly on the floor. Have your partner sit on the floor as they position themself between your legs and perform oral sex with an additional finger bang.
If you want to add your vibe, give your lover a front-row seat as you play, or let them take control and guide you to big-O bliss.
While we know how good a clitoral toy feels - especially with partners, you aren’t limited to just that. Check out our favourite toys for couples here.
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