Win a$1,000date night
THE 30-DAY RECONNECT · A CHALLENGE FOR TWO

Thousands of you have told us the same thing:

“We've become
flatmates.

So we built the fix.

However you got here, 30 days gets you out. One tiny task a night, for both of you.

Waitlist members hear first, and get first dibs when the next round opens.

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Starts Monday 5 October, 7pm NZ time. One cohort, everyone starts Day 1 together, no late entry.

How it works

Simple, on purpose.

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7pm, every night: one sealed task lands on both your phones. Nobody knows what's coming.

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Open it together. Tasks under 20mins. Built for busy lifestyles.

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You take turns leading. The app does the nagging, so nobody has to be the project manager.

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Both done = flame stays lit. Climb the leaderboard, stay in the running for the $1,000 date night.

Every challenge crowns a winner
$1,000
date night, on us

The couple that completes the most tasks on time and writes the review with the most heart wins. We fund your next date night. The prize grows as more couples join.

The month

Four weeks. One rebuild.

Wk 1

See each other again. Easy wins. Zero pressure.

Wk 2

Say the unsaid. With training wheels on.

Wk 3

The secret rule. We only reveal it once you're in. Couples say it's the week that changed everything.

Wk 4

Play. Everything the month rebuilt gets somewhere to go.

The questions everyone asks

Fair enough. Ask away.

What is the 30-Day Reconnect Challenge?

It's 30 days, one small task a night, sent to both your phones at 7pm. Every task arrives sealed and you open it together. Nothing over 20 minutes, built for after the kids are down, and you take turns leading so nobody's the nag.

They're mini tasks designed to get your mind out of the day-to-day and remind you both why you got together in the first place. Some are playful, some go deeper, and they build in an order that makes each one feel easy by the time it arrives. If you're worried it gets intense fast: there are no touch tasks at all until week three. The first two weeks are just noticing each other again and saying the stuff you've been meaning to say.

Week three has a rule we only reveal once you're in (every couple pulls a face, then it becomes their favourite week), week four is play, catch-up days are built in because life happens, and every cohort's most committed couple wins a $1,000 date night on us.

Only caveat: if things are in real crisis, a therapist is the better spend. This is for couples where nothing's wrong but nothing's right either. If that's you two, this was built for you 💗

What if my partner won't do it?

We invite them for you on day zero, the app pings both phones (so nobody's the nag), and week one is so easy they won't even clock they've started a challenge.

We genuinely don't have time.

Nothing is over 20 minutes, most tasks are under 10, and it's all built for the after-bedtime window. If you've got ten minutes a night, you've got this.

Won't it be awkward?

Week one is deliberately easy, and there are no touch tasks at all until week three. The first two weeks are just noticing each other again and saying the stuff you've been meaning to say. By the time anything braver shows up, it won't feel brave anymore.

Is this couples therapy?

No, and it's not a substitute for it either. If things are in real crisis, a therapist is the upgrade. This is for the huge silent middle: nothing's wrong, but nothing's right either. That, we can fix.

Flatmates, back to wanting each other.

No spam. Just first dibs and a couple of honest updates.